51 San Mateo, United States
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My self-summary
For those of short attention span, here are some keywords:

Emotionally intelligent

I've escaped Catholicism and the midwest in search of more fun. Helping people learn and grow is one of the passions in my life, both personal and professional. I work with very smart tech people, helping them collaborate and play well in the sandbox. On the personal side, I think that healthy relationships help us become better versions of ourselves, while adding joy to our lives.

I enjoy: meeting new people, learning, teaching, flirting, the first kiss, fast cars, flogging, running, camping, coffee shops, San Francisco, Portland, Las Vegas, poker, spinning fire, and driving with the top down.

I have a fetish for honesty. I appreciate people who can openly and honestly express themselves, while also owning their own shit. I've done the work. I'm doing the work. I appreciate people who are doing their own work and actively growing into better versions of themselves.
What I’m doing with my life
Living it!

Work is engaging, challenging, rewarding and fun.

I'm on the lookout for new and interesting people to connect with.

I'm spending just a bit too much time with my laptop, maybe you can help with that?
I’m really good at
Helping people grow
I like to think that I'm raising bad jokes to an art form.
I'm pretty good with floggers or flaming poi in my hands.
The first things people usually notice about me
The long hair and the fact that I'm probably talking.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Anything by Heinlein, The Alchemist, Delivering Happiness, The Happiness Hypothesis, (See any patterns?), Altered Carbon, Lost Horizon

Short Bus, Inception, Smokey and the Bandit (No, really. Go watch it again it's still fun.), Fight Club, Amadeus, all the 007 films

Live music of most types, I'm especially fond of good singer-songwriter types

Real Chicago Pizza, Indian food, Mexican, what-ever you are making
The six things I could never do without
The inter-webs
Erotic connection
My passport
New experiences
I spend a lot of time thinking about
... the future

... right here, right now

...why you haven't messaged me already! Let's get to the fun and adventure part.
On a typical Friday night I am
Traveling around the globe
Playing poker or perhaps Settlers of Catan
Spinning fire
Enjoying an awesome restaurant
Having some other sort of fun :-)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
OK, this is pretty juicy and I've never told anyone before, but here goes...

There I was, just about to*&(LDs9LxQ-~^*(&R:J DSU+ Line Error.... Connection Lost: The remote system is no longer responding.
You should message me if
... you are fit, smart, and non-monogamous.