If you care about beyond the superficial then you will read everything first!
I really want someone that has a similar lifestyle or view of life and thinks that we would be compatible in almost every way. I am health conscious and care about keeping myself in shape. I expect the same of my mate. I want to be with someone that cares about others outside of themselves. Someone that is confident with who they are minus arrogance. Someone that would never consider doing something to purposely hurt anyone or anything. oh and lies, games, infidelity and drugs are never acceptable so if you partake in any of that.. move along :)
I get personal fulfillment from doing stuff to help like giving blood or going to a safe house and helping cook dinner or other humanitarian activities. I hope to maybe find someone that has similar interests.
Outside of helping animals and humanity I love going out and doing new things!! I barely allow myself to have downtime. Even on my rare days off Im still up and doing stuff by eight and usually don't stop till I get in bed that night! Wineries, bars, clubs, museums, parks, etc. I love just going out and doing stuff :)
Movies: Most movies with Sandra Bullock, Denzel Washington, Love Boondock Saints, I'm into action, comedy, horror, drama, some chick flicks
Shows: I like girlie shows like Millionaire matchmaker and Say yes to the dress but typically I get sucked into BIO.HD and ID with real life murder mysteries and ghost shows
Music: Big on pop, techno, trance, house, dubstep, also like some rap, country, rock, jazz, and some oldies
Food: Ice cream, ground beef, salad, seafood, sushi, beer, wine, pulled pork, I love pretty much all food!
oh, and super important.
I'm trying this new thing called, "friendship before sex"
and if your first thought just now was, "how long?" then maybe you shouldn't bother cuz then that's called a game.
Also, don't bother messaging if cupid says we aren't a 50% match or at the very least 50% friends. If a stupid computer thinks we can't even be friends, I probably won't bother responding to your message!
Lol, this is more like the box of why to NOT message me. If you have kids, I will not be interested. This may seem harsh but, I dated one guy with a kid and it was the roughest break up of my life. I will never put a child in the middle of a relationship again. Can't handle the emotional stress.
Also, if I do not respond there are a myriad of possible reasons. I would appreciate if my judgement gets respected. I try to be fair and read everyone's profile.
Sometimes, my reason is completely superficially based. Sometimes I saw a pic of you and your friends and I thought the friend was more attractive. I will always steer clear in that case!
There are tons of other reasons that I might not respond. But those are a few examples. So, don't waste mine and I will definitely try to not and waste yours.