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My self-summary
I'm a funny person who believes in kindness, love, and living creatively.

I like to communicate openly and for my partner and I to feel free to talk about anything, no matter how silly or irrational or heavy or anything else.

I love caves, theatre, my bicycle, books, thought and consciousness, astronomy, ontology, camping, women, movies, love, music, acting, and improv. I love to write. I'm a co-producer with an Austin theatre company, and I play a lot of improv with a couple of troupes. I even tour sometimes with one of them; I love to visit different cities and perform in them--or not perform, and just enjoy them.

I seek out beauty and authentic moments. I find some kind of joy in finding the beauty that is kicked around and overlooked and under-appreciated in this scary and lovely world.

Never been married, nor had any kids, illicit affairs, nor stds.

I love being able to be fiercely and creatively and dynamically myself with another person. Despite the popular wisdom that we must all be independent and nobody needs anybody else to be complete, I am happier when I can share my life experiences with someone. That doesn't mean I need to be with someone all the time. My partner and I should be free to have our personal space and time whenever we want. Freedom is good stuff. And I think every relationship has its own dynamic identity and "rules," and it's always good to talk openly with each other about that, and about nearly everything, too.
What I’m doing with my life
I have a fun job, and I'm doing lots of theatre and comedy. I love Living in Austin!
I’m really good at
... whistling and humming at the same time. Kissing. Copy editing. Camping. Driving safely. Making puns. Listening to sounds and people.

I'm also really good at being funny. It's the truth, I am definitely good at making people laugh, but I've often been reticent to say that in this profile, because I've never been able to make my profile funny.
The first things people usually notice about me
These days, my beard.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Jacques the Fatalist and His Master, A Sentimental Education, London Fields, Jitterbug Perfume, Quantum Psychology, Life After God, Pére Goriot, Ulysses, Women in Love, A Scanner Darkly, VALIS, The Western Lands, The Temptation of Saint Antony, Candide, The Book of Laughter and Forgetting, The Wind-up Bird Chronicle, Tropic of Capricorn, White Noise, Cloud Atlas.

Movies: Melancholia, That Obscure Object of Desire, Vertigo, Kids in the Hall: Brain Candy, Aguirre: The Wrath of God, O Brother Where Art Thou?, High and Low, The Science of Sleep, Revanche, The Thing, Day For Night, Zodiac.

TV Shows:
This was my facebook post the day after netflix released season 4 of Arrested Development:
"I just wanted to say here real quick, especially before any complaints of sour, thwarted expectations started showing up around here, because they often do in this forum, that I saw all 15 episodes of Arrested Development, and, I dunno, maybe because I was in a good mood following a nice bike ride, maybe because I was watching with a good friend, maybe because I was delightfully stoned a great deal of the time, maybe because we were watching on a 40-something inch TV, and maybe because we prepared a bunch of delicious chocolate-dipped frozen bananas for snacks, and maybe it was all just a perfect storm of context for enjoyment, but I really loved the show, and after the first three episodes, which I consider to be mostly set-up and exposition for the most complex "sit" ever devised for a "sitcom," I was laughing heartily and consistently through the remaining episodes of the season, and that was really very satisfying, and I give this unusual pop sensation of a series resurrection at least an A, if not an A+."

Community, Fargo, Mr. Show, Unbreakable Kimmy Schmidt, Seinfeld, The Wire, Breaking Bad, Firefly, South Park, Family Guy, Stella, Monty Python's Flying Circus, The State, Twin Peaks, Curb Your Enthusiasm, The Daily Show with Jon Stewart, The Colbert Report, Kids in the Hall, The Sarah Silverman Program, Beavis and Butthead, Home Movies, I'm Alan Partridge.

Music: Bill Laswell, Amon Tobin, Mogwai, Aphex Twin, Arab Strap, Boards of Canada, Mouse on Mars, TV on the Radio, Wooden Shjips, Wolf Eyes, Bobby Hughes Experience, The Telescopes, Future Sound of London, The Unicorns, Angels of Light, Camper Van Beethoven, Autechre, Paul Simon, Current 93, The Melvins, Ghostland Observatory, Gang of 4, The Raveonettes, Pavement, Sonic Youth, They Might be Giants, Radiohead, Talking Heads, Negativland, The Flaming Lips, Minutemen, Air, Four Tet, Robyn Hitchcock, The Fall, Badly Drawn Boy, Castanets, Beta Band, Stereolab, Flying Saucer Attack, Low, Ween, Galaxie 500, Yo La Tengo, My Bloody Valentine, The Streets, Peace Orchestra, Akron/Family, Sigur Ros, Devendra Banhart, Broadcast, Broken Social Scene, Sic Alps, Monolake, The Oh Sees, Pelican, Built To Spill, Arcade Fire, M83, Sen King, Santigold, Teenage Fanclub.
The six things I could never do without
bicycle music film trees rain books
I spend a lot of time thinking about
... who I am and what I'm doing here and where I'm going and how to keep growing .
On a typical Friday night I am
In a show, or seeing a show, or watching samurai films.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I like boobs. That is the most private thing I am willing to admit here, and at the same time, you already knew that before I said it. Boobies.
You should message me if
it seems right.

I'm including a kind of epilogue for my profile here. This is like, if you want to know me in a nutshell, these are the basics: I love acting, laughing, dancing, Radiohead, rain, road trips, hiking, biking, marijuana, watching movies, all kinds of playing with words and language, and intimate, creative, meaningful moments with people I care about.

If that sounds good, then tell me something.