Cis4Conifer
44 Austin, United States
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My self-summary
I'm a funny person who believes in kindness, love, and living creatively.

I like to communicate openly and for my partner and I to feel free to talk about anything, no matter how silly or irrational or heavy or anything else.

I love caves, theatre, my bicycle, books, thought and consciousness, astronomy, ontology, camping, women, movies, love, music, acting, and improv. I love to write. I'm a co-producer with an Austin theatre company, and I play a lot of improv with a couple of troupes. I even tour sometimes with one of them; I love to visit different cities and perform in them--or not perform, and just enjoy them.

I seek out beauty and authentic moments. I find some kind of joy in finding the beauty that is kicked around and overlooked and under-appreciated in this scary and lovely world.

Never been married, nor had any kids, illicit affairs, nor stds.

I love being able to be fiercely and creatively and dynamically myself with another person. Despite the popular wisdom that we must all be independent and nobody needs anybody else to be complete, I am happier when I can share my life experiences with someone. That doesn't mean I need to be with someone all the time. My partner and I should be free to have our personal space and time whenever we want. Freedom is good stuff. And I think every relationship has its own dynamic identity and "rules," and it's always good to talk openly with each other about that, and about nearly everything, too.
What I’m doing with my life
I have a fun job, and I'm doing lots of theatre and comedy. I love Living in Austin!
I’m really good at
... whistling and humming at the same time. Kissing. Copy editing. Camping. Driving safely. Making puns. Listening to sounds and people.

I'm also really good at being funny. It's the truth, I am definitely good at making people laugh, but I've often been reticent to say that in this profile, because I've never been able to make my profile funny.
The first things people usually notice about me
These days, my beard.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Jacques the Fatalist and His Master, A Sentimental Education, London Fields, Jitterbug Perfume, Quantum Psychology, Life After God, Pére Goriot, Ulysses, Women in Love, A Scanner Darkly, VALIS, The Western Lands, The Temptation of Saint Antony, Candide, The Book of Laughter and Forgetting, The Wind-up Bird Chronicle, Tropic of Capricorn, White Noise, Cloud Atlas.

Movies: Melancholia, That Obscure Object of Desire, Vertigo, Kids in the Hall: Brain Candy, Aguirre: The Wrath of God, O Brother Where Art Thou?, High and Low, The Science of Sleep, Revanche, The Thing, Day For Night, Zodiac.

TV Shows:
Rick and Morty, Fargo, Louie, Fleabag

Music: Aphex Twin, Radiohead, Camper Van Beethoven, Run the Jewels
The six things I could never do without
bicycle music film trees rain books
I spend a lot of time thinking about
... who I am and what I'm doing here and where I'm going and how to keep growing .
On a typical Friday night I am
In a show, or seeing a show, or watching samurai films.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I've suffered through over a decade of manic depression and anxiety disorder, but I somehow eventually got well and recovered from it. Only in the last couple of years. It's been nice, having mental wellness.
You should message me if
it seems right.

I'm including a kind of epilogue for my profile here. This is like, if you want to know me in a nutshell, these are the basics: I love acting, laughing, dancing, Radiohead, rain, road trips, hiking, biking, marijuana, watching movies, all kinds of playing with words and language, and intimate, creative, meaningful moments with people I care about.

If that sounds good, then tell me something.
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