I am very much into self-development. I want to be a better person. My greatest motivation is that I want to have a great relationship. I want to be able to attract the right girl, and I want to be able to be a great partner.
I strive daily to think optimistically and to see possibilities rather than impossibilities - which is easier said than done.
I have a sweet and loving cat named Emma.
My MBTI type, in case you care about such things, is INTJ. In the DiSC profile I am mostly a C, and in the Enneagram I think I am a type 5...
I work in IT, which is good. In addition to that, I aspire to being a composer and writer. I have written heavy metal, (fragments of) musicals and orchestral music. I have a dream of being a composer. It's not easy, because I've had something of a writer's block for a couple of years now, but I am trying...
I sing and I play amateur theatre. Most of my social life is in conjunction with this. At first glance I may look like an extrovert, but I am actually strongly introverted and spent a lot of my time reading (see "Favourite" section below) and exploring music (again, see "Favourite" section).
My sister tells me that I am really good at changing and improving myself. I tend to be harsh with myself, so I often find it difficult to believe that she is right, but I want to believe it.
I think I am good a listening to people. In fact, I prefer to be with someone who talks a lot. That way I don't have to worry about "being interesting" and "having something to say" and can just relax and listen, which is much easier for me.
I am good at my job. In periods where I am sad, it's often my job that keeps me afloat, because it's something I know I am competent at.
One thing I can NOT do, though, is play hard to get. I know that dating customs dictate that if I like you, I should play it cool and act like I don't care. I don't do that. Well, sometimes I do out of fear, but I try not to do it. And I suck at it anyway. If I like you, I will probably show it. I need a girl who appreciates that.
I love heavy metal, musical theatre and classical music. My dream is to write music that combines all three genres. I'm working on it...
I like anime and Godzilla films.
As for food... I love cake and ice cream and the like, but recently I've decided to cut back on sweets. My best friend suggested that my diet might be contributing to the mood swings I have been having, so I have switched to a paleo-like diet. So far it seems to have worked. My mood and happiness have improved since I started it.
Whether or not I am doing the right thing with my life.