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My self-summary

I am very much into self-development. I want to be a better person. My greatest motivation is that I want to have a great relationship. I want to be able to attract the right girl, and I want to be able to be a great partner.

I strive daily to think optimistically and to see possibilities rather than impossibilities - which is easier said than done.

I have a sweet and loving cat named Emma.

My MBTI type, in case you care about such things, is INTJ. In the DiSC profile I am mostly a C, and in the Enneagram I think I am a type 5...
What I’m doing with my life
Among other things, I meditate every day and read lots of books about self-development and spirituality. I am a highly skeptical agnostic, but at the same time I am very interested in spiritual ideas.

I work in IT, which is good. In addition to that, I aspire to being a composer and writer. I have written heavy metal, (fragments of) musicals and orchestral music. I have a dream of being a composer. It's not easy, because I've had something of a writer's block for a couple of years now, but I am trying...

I sing and I play amateur theatre. Most of my social life is in conjunction with this. At first glance I may look like an extrovert, but I am actually strongly introverted and spent a lot of my time reading (see "Favourite" section below) and exploring music (again, see "Favourite" section).
I’m really good at
I am a good singer - at least, I like to think I am.

My sister tells me that I am really good at changing and improving myself. I tend to be harsh with myself, so I often find it difficult to believe that she is right, but I want to believe it.

I think I am good a listening to people. In fact, I prefer to be with someone who talks a lot. That way I don't have to worry about "being interesting" and "having something to say" and can just relax and listen, which is much easier for me.

I am good at my job. In periods where I am sad, it's often my job that keeps me afloat, because it's something I know I am competent at.

One thing I can NOT do, though, is play hard to get. I know that dating customs dictate that if I like you, I should play it cool and act like I don't care. I don't do that. Well, sometimes I do out of fear, but I try not to do it. And I suck at it anyway. If I like you, I will probably show it. I need a girl who appreciates that.
The first things people usually notice about me
I speak Danish with an odd accent. I sound old-fashioned, like the queen: "Gud bevare Danmark..." People often ask me if I am a foreigner. I am not. I have no good reason for having an odd accent. I think I developed it subconsciously because I am a language geek.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I am a great lover of fantasy fiction, science fiction and horror. Anything speculative and otherworldly. :)

I love heavy metal, musical theatre and classical music. My dream is to write music that combines all three genres. I'm working on it...

I like anime and Godzilla films.

As for food... I love cake and ice cream and the like, but recently I've decided to cut back on sweets. My best friend suggested that my diet might be contributing to the mood swings I have been having, so I have switched to a paleo-like diet. So far it seems to have worked. My mood and happiness have improved since I started it.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to be happy.
Whether or not I am doing the right thing with my life.
On a typical Friday night I am
Occasionally I am at a party or with a friend, but most often I am at home reading or trying to write something.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I had a fairly serious depression in the summer/autumn of 2013. That was hard, but it did inspire me to make some changes in my life. I have changed my diet, boycotted pornography and begun writing music again. Those things have helped. It has also helped that I've gotten a cat and developed a new close friendship.
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