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My self-summary
MatsuriCon Here I Come!!

I will not respond to messages from people with empty profiles or one liners. I am not offering sex so don't ask.

As I'm going through life and learning about myself I'm becoming a new person. I'm relatively dominant personality and I do lean towards being gender queer as much as I dislike using labels. I enjoy traveling for anime conventions and cosplaying is pretty important to me. Even if you just want to hang out at conventions or travel together thats great since I'm usually by myself anyways.

I hate rollercoasters. But I can be convinced to ride them sometimes. I like honesty. I get anxious in big crowds and I'm pretty awkward if I'm by myself. I love animals and currently have fish, a cat, a horse and a dog. I enjoy meeting for lunch rather than dinner because there's less crowds and it's more comfortable.

I haven't dated in a while and nothing serious in about 4 or 5 years. Being asexual can narrow down the chances of finding someone compatable quite a bit. I'm more dominant and that also leads to problems especially when I date men. I'm open to dating anyone really but right now I'm more leaning towards friendship and platonic things so there's no pressure to hang out with me. I don't have many friends (like 5 maybe) so with delivering papers I'm almost always free and up for hanging out or getting food.

I'm on the hunt for cosplay friends!
What I’m doing with my life
Well I just quit the job I've held for the past 2 !/2 years in order to jumpstart my life again and allow me to move on to the next thing. I'm studying to go back to school for journalism and I'm currently working as a delivery driver for the News Herald. My life has been nothing but work lately so I'm trying to reconnect with my inner wild child again and trying to get back out there. I'll be honest that I've only had one real relationship in the past 5 years and I think I've kinda psyched myself out of dating and I've kind of forgotten who I really am. So like I said I'm trying to find myself again and maybe I'll meet someone that is right for me maybe not.
I’m really good at
Cosplay and finding cheap travel arrangements. I'm an excellent cook and I take every chance to make my own food. I'm great with horses and cats other animals put up with me lol I'm ok at archery and knife throwing but not so good that I'd brag about it. I'm pretty charming so I can make almost anyone like me and I'm good at acting and public speaking even being as socially awkward as I am.
The first things people usually notice about me
My height and then my hair (I try different styles every time I get a haircut. Currently I'm short blue with an undercut)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Well when I was in middle school I read the entire library when I wasn't involved in sports or 4H, I'll read anything but romance novels I find them mostly cheesy. I love history and poetry and my favorite authors would have to be Shakespeare and Herman Melville. I collect old and/or unique books and I'm a huge nerd over learning about Atlantis and have written 2 research papers on it for school.
I love action movies and I'm in love with the whole Marvel movies they've been doing recently.
As for music I'll listen to anything that isn't heavy metal, screamo, rap or anything of similar sound. Pop, classic rock, irish punk, old school country, swing, big band and blues. My tastes are pretty broad spectrum and depend on my mood. I have a passion for OST and soundtracks as well as classical orchestra music.
The six things I could never do without
My Family
My pets
My Memories
My Imagination
I spend a lot of time thinking about
When I'm alone I usually end up thinking about life, about how we only have one and it goes by really fast. I worry that I'm going to die and leave nothing to mark the world that I was here. I'm worried about the choices I've made and what I should do, if I'm being selfish or not selfish enough, it makes me sad and scared so I try to keep busy.
On a typical Friday night I am
Order dinner in for me and the family and rent a movie.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm scared that I will always be alone and that something is really wrong with me and that's why I can't seem to make any friends or understand people at all. It makes me anxious and when I'm alone I get scared and panicked and sometimes cry but I feel that maybe everyone has moments like that, or at least I hope they do. I'm insecure with how I look and I'm scared about my lack of motivation and resolve in life.
I freeze up at the cash register because I'm dyslexic and it's easy for me to get confused while trying to count out money so I usually only have a debit card.
You should message me if
If you've actually read my profile and don't want to screw with my head.
If you can accept that I'm not interested in sex.
If you are willing to meet for lunch so we can get to know each other without any pressure.
If you are an anime junkie and love cosplay and conventions.

Please message me in an entire sentence, saying hey and maybe that I'm cute won't make me reply, it'll only annoy me and I won't respond. If your profile is empty I will not respond. I'm not offering sex period.