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My self-summary
Who am I? I am the only person that I can be, myself. Still, that doesn't make defining my existence any easier. (profiles are hard? so cliché...)

I would say the thing that defines me is authenticity. I think about who I am a lot because I don't want to be somebody else, and I don't want to live a lie. It's not about always being honest, and you don't have to become a hipster, rejecting the influences of your peers and mainstream culture. Authenticity is about being honest and vulnerable to the most critical person in your world, yourself. That's how you learn your values, the things that matter to you more than what you want.

Anyway, I'm a bit of a nerd and an introvert. I spend more of my time reading and listening to others than I do talking. I enjoy writing because I think that storytelling is an amazing way to create empathy and connect with other people. I enjoy human connection, but I'm unlikely to initiate things. I'll go out to a party if I'm invited ,have fun, drink, and chat with you and your friends. I just don't dance or throw my own parties.

When It comes to relationships, friends or otherwise, I have a healthy respect for boundaries and don't tend to judge people. I'm pretty laid back about most things. I am not clingy or jealous, though I understand some people like that sort of thing.

I'm poly, but not exclusively. My ideal relationship is an open one. Honestly, monogamy isn't bad. I just like the freedom of being able bring someone home to share or play with alone if my partner is busy or not interested. Something like a triad with multiple romantic partners would be interesting to try, but I'm not sure It'd be something I want long term. The people are paramount, though. It could be great. :)

If you still feel like you would like to know more about me send a message or check out my questions. I've started to make an effort to add at least a sentence or two to each one.

"life is like a story and no story is complete without conflict." ~ me

INFP <-- ask, please. I like introducing people to MBTI.
What I’m doing with my life
Right now, I work at a bar. I'm a cook, but I'm trying to become a barback so I can learn to bartend. It's good money, and something I could do on weekends when I go back to school.

My future plans involve becoming a educator and author, owning a motorcycle, designing my own dream house, finding a family to share my life with, and of course world domination.
I’m really good at
Being distracted. There are just so many wonderful and interesting things to do and learn. How can anyone possibly focus in such a place?

I'd also like to think I'm good with computers and writing. I've built my own computer and I've taken apart desktops, laptops, phones, and all in ones without breaking them.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm absolutely ATROCIOUS at remembering names. That might be more noticeable the second time I meet someone though...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I am a nerd. I love learning about new things and obsessing over every kind of entertainment conceivable. The internet is a wonderful place where you can watch the latest season of Family Guy, and research sugar alcohols and their effects on teeth.
List time.

Books: Keys to the Kingdom, Percy Jackson, John Rain, Ranger's Apprentice, LOTR, Harry Potter, Inheritance Cycle, Seventh Tower, Thief Lord, Gone, lots of young adult lit

Movies: Frozen, Liar Liar, Yes Man, Avengers, Iron Man, Hunger Games, Lord of the Rings, Law Abiding Citizen, Thor, Keith, Matrix, Stuff by Dreamworks and Disney, Marvel stuff

TV: Dr. Who, Heros, Avatar, Naruto, Roswell, Stargate, Breaking Bad, Walking Dead, Orange is the New Black, Supernatural, Switched at Birth, Game of Thrones, lots of anime, Marvel stuff

Music : Three Days Grace, Bullet for my Valentine, Greyson Chance, Nickleback, Macklemore, Linkin Park, Adele, Imagine Dragons, Fall Out Boy, Disturbed, Above & Beyond, Ramseses B, Lindsy Sterling, Lorde

Food: Pretty picky, I'll go with Pizza.

Also, I love youtube, and surfing the web until far too late into the night.
The six things I could never do without
1. Independence
2. The Internet
3. Wikipedia, I look up random things quite often.
4. Individuality
5. Tech
6. Queerness

Not in any particular order.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
tldr; EVERYTHING. List time again.

People. Things I value. PERSONALITY. Sex. LOVE. Education. English. German. Japanese. Communication. Music. Gadgets. Psychology. Computers. Anime. Drugs. Games. Cute couples. The sheer vastness of life. SOCIAL JUSTICE. Sexuality. Feminism. INFP. How awesome I am. How much better I could be. Hair. Macs. PCs. Google. Tablets. Desktops. Laptops. Teaching. Education. COMPLEXITY. The future. AUTHENTICITY. Netflix. Documentaries. government. Equality. Individuality. DIVERSITY. Body image. Science. Physics. Numbers. Video games. Kingdom Hearts. ROXAS. Doctor Who. Experiencing life. HELPING PEOPLE. Personal growth. Agnosticism. Faith.

Reincarnation throughout space and time with perfect persistent memory unaffected by brain damage. <-- my first genie wish or all three if necessary
On a typical Friday night I am
With my closest friends hanging out, appreciating the end of the week, and just talking. Sometimes we go out, sometimes we don't.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I used to have a crush on a video game character named Roxas. Obviously it's not serious, but I don't like to be serious all the time.

"I am me! Nobody else!" ~ Roxas
You should message me if
You think we have something in common, and are not afraid of taking chances in life. Or you find any of my answers interesting/confusing. I love to talk about my values and ideas.

"If love is worth the time, the price is being rejected" ~ Greyson Chance