I consider myself to be a genre of one. I am a fierce individualist and not afraid of who I am while also growing continually. I am laid-back and people tend to gravitate to me easily but I quickly distance myself from people who cause problems. I am myself 100% of the time and not easily shaken. I hang out with people who are cool with me and I with them, and share a common, big-picture view on the world.
My friends and family are important to me and I have a lot of close relationships. My friends are all different; some are extremely artistic, others are into sports, and some are even in politics. I think this has rounded out my view of the world pretty well- which is always a good policy.
I own a music teaching studio in downtown Plainfield where I teach guitar. I play guitar in both a death metal band (and I'm not talking about boys in skinny jeans here, I mean the scary kind of death metal) and in my church band. So ya that's unusual I guess. I am also a stock market investor. I play competitive hockey a couple times a week, maintain a huge library of military history books, and I love movies (especially sci-fi/fantasy stuff). I have a bachelors degree in video game art and design and I have been an artist all of my life. I go out fairly often but I love a good night in- cooking dinner and watching a good movie or hanging out with friends.
As far as how I am personally, I don't do much without thinking it through pretty substantially but I can be very decisive (small business ownership skills I think). I'm also a problem solver and I don't get hung up on keeping score (if you know what I mean). What I'm getting at here, is that this isn't my first rodeo and I don't respond favorably to mind-games. I want a mature relationship with a woman who is her own, strong person. Making good cookies and being a good kisser is also appreciated.
Well that pretty much sums it up. If you want to talk or hang out then feel free to hit me up!
I'm secretly looking for someone who can prove there is providence to relationships and not just randomness. But I suppose that's what we all wonder isn't it? I do have a romantic side....