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My self-summary
First thing you must know is that I am polyamorous. Secondly, though I am bi, I lean mostly toward hetero. My interests include bicycling, flying and hiking. I am the coauthor of "Creating A Line-Family: Love, Abundance and Belonging in the New Millennium." It is a non-fiction book and is available at

I’m a country boy who was moved to the city. While I love the city for its cultural and social amenities, my heart lives in the country where nights can be dark, except for the stars and moon and quiet, except for the frogs, birds and crickets.

I am a student, teacher, and lover
What I’m doing with my life
1. I am was a founding member of the board of directors for Polycamp NW. Please check out the website It is a “family friendly” weekend for polyamorous families and singles. We do, however, encourage people of any sexual identity that are curious about polyamory to attend for a day or the whole weekend. Polycamp is currently being held in late August at Millersylivania State Park in Western Washington.

2. I am giving talks and writing about line-family (or line-marriage if you are into Heinlein). A line-family is a family that does not end. As the family members age and die, new younger members are added. Family businesses, property and investments are never dissapated by wills. This is how rich, powerful families like the Bushes and Mullenburghs stay rich and powerful.
Check it out at

3. Talking to anyone who is willing about poly families of any sort.
I’m really good at
Flying and bicycling downhill way too fast.
The first things people usually notice about me
I've never asked them. I think I'll start doing that. Could be interesting.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Sex at Dawn, by Chris Ryan & Cacilda Jetha.
Movies: I just discovered “Bandits” with Bruce Willis, Cate Blanchett & Billy Bob Thornton – very funny with a couple of good twists.
Music: Beatles, Cranberries, most Motown, Beethoven, Antonin Dvořák, Willie Nelson…
Food: Sun warmed ripe peach pulled off the tree. Sweet corn straight from the garden to the kitchen. Late-harvest Riesling or Eiswein (ice wine). Salmon and Semillon; dark chocolate and any robust red wine (merlot or cabernet).
Six things I could never do without
"Life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness."
Family & friends.
A sense of purpose.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Lately I have been thinking about, and have produced a presentation about, “line families.” It is an on going project. I have given this presentation at conferences on the east coast, on Maui and at Polycamp and Seattle area venues. A friend said I was writing a book. She was right. Now I'm writing a novel.
On a typical Friday night I am
Doing things I like.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I don’t want to die without young friends who will tell wonderful lies at my wake about my amazing life. And as the evening wears on, my life will get more and more amazing.
You should message me if are interested in Polycamp. have a good paying job in the field of energy conservation you would like to offer me. are interested in having me (and possibly my coauthor) give a presentation about line families to your group.

...if you are part of a line-family or would like to know what a line-family is.

...only if you want to. That is more important than all the "shoulds" above.
The two of us