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My self-summary
So let's just say on the very top of my favorite people list is my partner in crime, wife, and best friend, 68Chrysalis... Our polyamorous relationship morphs at times, but 68 and I are very secure in what we have and are always open to making new friends, riding partners, and introducing new people to our perverted little world. Somewhere along the line recently, we both fell in love with CocoteroSilk, and she's a lovely and free agent looking for a king of her own, but in the meantime - we're enjoying having her by our side. Our relationship is open now, and we're all three free to date others, but neither of us is anything CLOSE to a sure bet. We constantly challenge ourselves to understand poly living better, and if one thing seems certain - it's that polyamory is a flowing dynamic, uncertain by its very nature, and if it's accepted as such, changes can be easier to wrap our brains and hearts around. Okay, maybe I'm a little too cerebral when I start writing, so fuck it. We just try to live our dreams rather than over-analyze them (he says, writing a fairly lengthy tome about his dreams).

I'm a scientist. I love all things scientific, from astronomy to zoology, but my degree, background, and love is physics. I despised the movie, What the Bleep (do we know), but if you enjoyed it that's okay as long as it was strictly for entertainment purposes. ;-)

While sex is important to me... Yeah, the kinky, sweaty, boundary-pushing kinda stuff... It's not everything. It's all part of the journey. We're so goal-oriented when it comes to sex, we forget to enjoy it until what... Until it's over? I'd prefer a nice evening with a live band, an afternoon at a museum, a sexy photo session, or just a cup of coffee with somebody - with no hurry to get to the sack. Although sheet-time is definitely nice, when I get there, keep in mind that I am not as "goal-oriented" as most may be. If I cum first... That's the way the cookie crumbles. So the pressure's off, LOL.

Dr. Seuss was right: “Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.”

I've been reading a lot of peoples' Q&A here... I love those. They really say a lot about people. I need to say something about politics though: I'm learning that many here could simply NEVER hook up with somebody who has opposite political beliefs as they have. I'm sorry to see that. I want to respect that and tell you my politics, which are important to me, but unfortunately, it makes me quite the opposite of MOST people. I'm a Libertarian. I believe strongly that government is about ten times its necessary size. I believe in helping my fellow human beings - not complete strangers in another state or country who are in no way accountable to me for the benefits they may receive and with no return on investment. I believe we all can make the world a better place if we start with ourselves, followed by our families, and then by our tribes and our communities. I believe public education is a monopoly, which is why it doesn't work as well as it should, and why our best teachers aren't paid as they should be. I believe wealth redistribution is "leveling the playing field" after the game is over. I believe corporate welfare is the exact opposite of capitalism, and capitalism is basically good. I also believe my personal wealth is not nearly as important as my spiritual health, but I still want government to lay off both of those. I want government to stay out of our bedrooms, and get out of the business of sanctioning marriage entirely. I want government to get out of the health care industry so costs can drop back to competitive levels and more people can afford it. This will also free us from silly behavioral engineering actions like limiting the foods we choose to eat, what we can smoke, how much we exercise, and whether or not we wear a helmet when we do semi-dangerous things. Basically, I want to live and let live, and I want to be able to hold onto a few thousand extra dollars every year so I can help a dear friend with cancer.
What I’m doing with my life
I've worked with lasers and optics for my entire career. I've been a professional photographer. I've had some good success with portrait photography, erotic photography, couples, singles, professional and personal. No longer doing that for $$, but if we have the time, I may get behind the glass for people I'd like to take pictures of.

Quality Engineer in the medical device field is my current profession. I actually love it, and am enjoying the depth of knowledge and experience I'm gaining in it.

In the non-professional world, I'm a biker... Sort of... I ride a Harley, which I love, and we ride with a motorcycle club for open-minded adults. It's called Nova Nilla, and (with my snoot in the aire) it's quite exclusive... We ride under the radar wherever we go, so don't expect us to look and act any different than any other group of wanna-be bikers when we're in public.
I’m really good at
Holding up a mirror.
Taking pictures - making people look as beautiful as they really are.
Word problems... In fact, I have a degree in Word Problems.
I make incredible coffee.
Keeping a secret.
Keeping myself engaged.
Teaching scientific concepts to open minds.
Figuring out enigmatic people and situations.
Reading maps! I LOVE them, all kinds of them... Maps talk to me.
I'm a good loser of things. I like people in my life who are good finders of things.
The first things people usually notice about me
The leather.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Love Nelson Demille and Ayn Rand novels. Neither has written enough for me... Of course, Demille still has a shot at it. The Four Agreements and The Fifth Agreement, both by Don Miguel Ruiz, changed my life. Really.

Movies: Shawshank Redemption, Matrix (all), Blade Runner, and various mind-bender movies, a la Sixth Sense and The Prestige, etc... Enjoyed Avatar - pretty good flick - Dances with Wolves on Star Wars steroids... But I can do a little less with anti-military-industrial-complex messages.

Listen mostly to blues and classic rock. We love to lounge around naked with sexy friends in the living room with Johnny Lang, Derek Trucks, Kenny Wayne Shepard et al., playing in the background while we just jabber. Another favorite hobby is to watch a series on DVD straight through - we finished all six seasons of LOST in about a month and a half. Whew! Also love True Blood. What's not to love about vampires? Also..... Walking Dead, Sons of Anarchy, Justified, Game of Thrones....

And wow... I just discovered I like fruit! (singular, for you fruits who feel encouraged, but who knows?) Also get irrational cravings for sushi now and then.
Six things I could never do without
1. My sons
2. My brain
3. My integrity
3.14159 pi
4. Freedom
5. Gravity
6. Dr. Seuss
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I think a lot about how to be a better person. I think we only get one shot at this, so I'm often thinking of how to squeeze the most out of life.

Random thought: I'm amused at the idea that things "happen for a reason". This is a human construct, designed to help us feel better about our own insignificance in the midst of infinity. The universe is causal, not purposeful. Nothing happens for any hidden twisted reason, unless one of us is behind it. The universe has no free will. I DO. WE do. I have the power to take the difficult path, make the stupid choices, challenge myself to do better (or worse), without falling victim to entropy and heat death. Does this make me an atheist, or just a narcissist?

Warm wet places to put my penis. Okay, not as much as I used to, but it seems appropriate and funny that I thought of it here.
On a typical Friday night I am
Doing something fun with my Queen or with another loved one. The week is long, time to catch up.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Okay okay... I'll tell you right here. I carry HSV2 antibodies. I don't have breakouts, and I'm as safe as anybody else, considering most who carry it aren't aware.
You should message me if
You enjoy playing chess and you have an Android.

You think I'd be fun to poke at with a stick to see how I react. Or if you ride a motorcycle and are interested in Nova Nilla... OR if you're cute, and you'd like a ride on the back of mine someday.

But please use the email system here. I prefer not to get IMs from people I don't know. And if you're writing me because you want to get to know my girl, that's not gonna happen on my say-so. You'll have to make the pitch to her on your own... She's free to choose. :)
The two of us