Comrade_J
43 London, United Kingdom
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My self-summary
NEW SHORT VERSION:

Curious energetic man seeks clever tomboy for doing things together.

I love art, ancient, modern, kitsch, whatever. I like making it as much as looking at it, and tend to draw things when I get the chance. I love being outdoors, from walking through bluebells to climbing mountains, to sitting in the park. Pub gardens count as outdoors. I'm incredibly bad at doing nothing, and would make the worst beach holiday companion ever.

Overall, I believe that more is more. The default response to all offers, proposals and invitations should be yes. I like food and drink, ideally not in moderation.

I'm interested in the world around me and not afraid to show it.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm enjoying life, which seems to me the best thing to do with it if at all possible - which I'll acknowledge it isn't always.
I’m really good at
Writing, drawing, lighting camp fires, telling other people how to design software, all of which I have earned money from at one time or another.

Being polite, patient and diplomatic.

I can cook well and love doing it. Pretty good at getting other people to dance. Can remember lots of poems by heart. Not scared of other people's children.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm overdressed for all occasions and proud of it.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I've read lots of books, heard lots of music, seen lots of pictures. Haven't we all, darling?

The best books are the ones you read out loud in bed to the lovely person lying next to you.
The six things I could never do without
Good food, good wine, the company of friends.
The perfect blend of sleep, conversation, silence and sex that you get on Sunday mornings with people you really like.
Art. Ballet. Mountains.
Paddling.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Who to invite for dinner.
On a typical Friday night I am
Drunk in London. Or sober in a car getting out of London. Or sober reading a book if I was drunk on Thursday.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm shameless and will answer any personal questions, but you have to go to the effort of actually asking me the question first.
You should message me if
a) My photos fill you with good old fashioned lust
b) You have short red hair, a northern accent, tattoos, the legs of a dancer, and a National Trust membership card. Will settle for one or less of these at a pinch.
c) You love learning new things, and understand that life is too important to take too seriously.
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