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My self-summary
After a 3+ year break I'm back, so a bit of updating may be in order.
I'm a fairly dominant, kinky, polyamorous, female, although I'm also a great caregiver. But like most women I have many facets and tend to be a bit introverted and even shy at times when in unfamiliar territory. Very interested in my studies into consciousness, geomancy, EDM / Psytrance (pdx has an AMAZING group of psytrance folk) and entanglement experimentation.

I'm a sensual little redhead., a gamer geek, Anime and Manga lover, Reiki Master, Pansexual, Cuddler of Plushy stuffed snakes, Ordained Reverend, Femme, Dom, Healer, (yes, I can break you then fix you)
.... Hmm, a lot of labels I guess.

I have fine red hair and eyes that change colors, although most of the time they're green or blue. Five foot tall, softly padded, but working on getting down to a healthier shape. I love rain showers and thunderstorms, especially when I can enjoy them at the coast.

I'm in a wonderful relationship with my sweet Giant Brian, and things are better everyday. My house is getting into the order I want it in, I have the best friends in the world from all walks of life. My life is truly a joyful dance right now, and I am loving every second of it.

I love watching movies / anime, meditation, energy work, making potions, tinctures, infused and flavored vodka's, incense, Reiki infused jewelry. I'm an expert cook, not professionally trained as such, but I am Southern and spent 2 years in Italy learning 'home-style' Italian from an Italian Mother that took me under her wing when I was 19.

Oh, and I'm such a gamer chick. If you're into WoW you'll understand, but used to be a DnD addict too. I just don't have / make the time for tabletop DnD anymore, I spend more time with PC, console and some board gaming. When I'm not in the mood to game, I'm either watching Anime, writing on some of my storylines or reading. Most of the time I read manga right now, but do some regular reading as well.

I've decided if I had a theme song it might be High by Sivk, lol.
What I’m doing with my life
Trying very hard to get all my story pieces together into an actual book. I have to fill in some blanks and desperately wish I had a brainstorm partner I felt comfortable with. I tend to gather inspiration from everything I read, see, experience, hear and dream. A lot of my storylines start in a dream that I write down and expand upon. Hopefully the Universe will help me figure things out. In case your interested, I write paranormal / fantasy genre stories with some erotic elements. I so far have clipped out much of the erotica due to feedback from the few folks who have read them. Plus, I'm better at 'seeing' erotic scenes than I am at writing them down. A friend invited me to the National Novel Writing Month NaNoWriMo in November (2016) so I did that for the first time last year. It was fun to be sure.

I'm beginning to teach myself Japanese, for various reasons but mainly because I want to read / watch non translated Japanese novels, manga and anime. Yes I'm a geek, but being able to communicate with as many beings as possible is a goal for me.

Also a Pagan Priestess, Reiki Master, and polyamorous female who has been offering Reiki, fetish, BDSM, Paganism, Ancient Religions and mythology workshops and classes for several years now. I consider the feminine form enchanting and love the energy of a woman who is learning about herself.

I am currently looking for a (hopefully) LTR with the right people but am very specific about my needs and desires. I want someone who will be a friend as much as a lover. Companion and playmates. The playmates part is really important, I want someone to accompany me to local events, psytrance, pagan, geeky, etc. Someone to laugh with and commune with, someone who will massage my feet for the joy of the look on my face.

Someone to explore with and share with. Someone if everything is right that might actually ‘join our clump’ as I like to call it with my BF and I. Or we may just stay loose friends as long as we harmonize. I'm very flexible and a bit detached about the structure of relationships. They are what they are, I don't impose my will on you, without consent, and I expect the same. Be nice to me, I'll be nice to you and no drama. Real simple.

I'm interested in both male and female companions, BUT they must be secure and good natured. I won't deal with jealousy nor tantrums anymore. Short summary: Past abuse and I have no tolerance for drama. I also don't go for codependent. Submissives are a bit different, but if you're submissive, we'll discuss the levels of my tolerance.

I'll be honest, I'd love a harem of men and women playmates to go to events and do things with all over town, but they have to be good natured. I have a hubby I love dearly but he hates to go out so I quite often find a friend of either gender to accompany me. I must be too Southern to go anywhere without a companion unless I go with the purpose of finding someone there. Rare, but I am a redhead and enjoy 'hunting' sometimes.

I just got the question: Would it be easier to list what you want or don't want in a relationship. And since I can't place that in the 'looking for' section, I figure I'll put it here.

I will start by saying most of this list is optimal, but the first 5 are absolutes.

Absence of Drama
Someone who is playful and open minded without judgey nonsense.
Respect for my beliefs even if you don't believe the same
Some common interests
Good natured laughter
Intelligent conversation

Optional Desires -
Someone I can discuss energy theory / Ancient or Pagan religions, quantum philosophies, mystery schools etc. with.
Someone who loves to massage my feet ( or other parts as the relationship and trust develops).
Someone to attend EDM, consciousness, pagan and / or Kinky events with.
A caregiver personality.
Submissive personality or at least an absence of desire to control me - I'm a redheaded female and I react badly to manipulations.
Gamer / Geek would be awesome.
Someone who understands that a grown adult is allowed to cuddle with stuffed animals and still be stronger than you would believe.

I'll add other stuff as I think of them.
I’m really good at
Coming up with story lines, Reiki, Chemistry, Alchemy, Making Incense, Salves, Tinctures, Cordials, Schnapps, infused liquors, Candles, Improv, singing, BDSM techniques.
The first things people usually notice about me
My easy laugh, Southern charm, beautiful eyes, Red hair, my fan or my tea cup. The pale moon kissed skin goes along with the hair.

Oh yes, and the freckles most likely. I was told when I was a little girl the freckles were angel kisses and I shouldn't be so grumpy about them. My reply was that they must have been some naughty angels because I had them in places angels shouldn't be lurking around. She never said anything like that again, so I think I won that round ;)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
My interests and favorites change depending on my mood as I'm a fairly flexible and flowing personality, but here are some good guidelines.

Books: Multiple Manga genres, but mostly Supernatural and Fantasy / dystopia. Most things by Terry Pratchet and Laurell K Hamilton, Chemistry Textbooks, Magick of Reiki, Meditations to Heal Your Life, Christopher Moore, Undead and Unwed series, humorous, paranormal fiction, Dead Witch Walking series, vampire fiction, this list could get huge..

Movies: The Sorcerer and White Snake, Army of Darkness, 10 Things I Hate About You, Kung Fu Panda, Underworld, How To Train Your Dragon, Tangled. Just about anything with Bruce Campbell. I also love vampire flicks, and folks have been known to question my taste in movies.

Food is a wide variant, but I'm a great cook, so I prefer my own to restaurants much of the time. I'm a Southern American cook who spent 2 years in Italy learning to cook Southern Italian and Sicilian from the locals. I make my own tea blends out of proper loose leaf tea (sweet tea of course). I adore Chinese and German food as well as Indian.
Six things I could never do without
6 is too few, but the list includes,
Love & Soulular connections
My Passion for learning
My computer
Sensual Tantric energies
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Mostly how to weave my pieces of a story into a whole book, or at least something big enough to publish for others to enjoy. I have a decade's worth of writing at this point, and two stories are shaping up fast. The biggest problem is I write best in a 'once upon a time' style and my editor friend said folks don't really respond to that style any more, they want to see things 'in scene' which is harder to do. The translation from right brain to left doesn't always go smoothly for me.

It's strange, but kissing has been on my mind. I love to kiss & cuddle, I miss the snuggle parties where folks could just get together and hold each other, touch each other and kiss with consent. I have fond memories of ending up in a corner with one or two others just 'loving' each other. Hmmm, I sound like a romantic fool, perhaps.

Maybe I'm just tired of the pressure to be someone specific, to be perfectly shaped, to accept that my goal in life is a harem of lovers and partners who just gather together and BE, supporting each other and making the 'work' light for everyone. No pressure, just be who you are. I just want to be me, in all my magnificence and create a utopia that can be copied and recreated all over the world.

--Older answer below
The list is endless and one of the reasons I sleep so little. Paganism, Religions ancient and modern, mythology, vampire legends, dance, creating, cooking, weaving magic, tantra...
On a typical Friday night I am
If there's an interesting event in PDX, I try to find a ride and make it out of the house.

Or I may hang out at home playing PC games, watch anime or documentaries, study one of the many subjects I'm into atm, writing or some such.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I just thought of somethings that would work well here.

I would love to find 2 close friends that are both into me so that we could form a very affectionate 3some. I love the idea of having a companion on each arm and the 3 of us keeping each other happy, entertained and satisfied. Its a variant on the classic 'twins' desire I suppose.

I have a huge weakness for sweet Bois. The quiet strength and combination of masculine traits with a female body just makes me melt and brings out all my Femme traits.

Don't ask any question of me you don't want to hear the answer to. Otherwise I'm a fairly private person on public forums yet am wide open with those I feel comfortable with.
You should message me if
If I seem interesting to you AND you respect the rules of the Polyamorous life style. I'm always willing to find new friends of any sex and as one friend put it 'my Poly Ohana'.

If you are into Anime / Manga and want to chat about series, likes, dislikes etc.

If you're into cosplay, I'd love to get to know you and find out where you cosplay.

If you want to be a friend and find me interesting.

Want to help me learn to read or speak Japanese!

Are Paganesque, hippy, starseed etc. or an energy worker that wants company for ritual, to harmonize etc.

Want a friend to hang out with in the SE PDX area (especially if you are a Boi) :) I love the place but don't head over there by myself very often.
The two of us