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My self-summary
Hi I'm Greg. Here's my problem: I don't drink anymore (it keeps me awake) and I tend to be early-to-bed-early-to-rise, so bars are out. So I don't meet guys much in all the other things I do. So here I am.

I'm looking for second dates. First dates are fun, but second dates are the thing. I'm hoping for something between a hookup and picking out china but I also want to be surprised. So surprise me.

I'm a busy guy...I have a corporate-drone job I actually like, I'm a writer, bicyclist, jogger (too slow to really be called a runner), blogger, reader, foodie, homebody, motorcyclist and explorer.

Self confidence is the hottest thing there is, and I'm pretty hot. I'm also completely open to being surprised by stuff other than what's here.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm working, writing, acting, laughing and reading. I'm spending time with friends, exploring art, and generally trying to just have fun.
I’m really good at
Hmmm...I'm a pretty good writer, I'm good at cooking, I'm really good at communicating, I'm really good at parallel parking, I'm really good at making oatmeal, I'm really good at setting boundaries, I'm really good at my job.
The first things people usually notice about me
My beard, I'm told. I was all insecure when my beard went gray, but it's apparently not a bad thing. People also notice my laugh.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Favorite books: Lord of The Rings (I'm a huge LoTR geek. Seriously), The Lacuna (Kingsolver), The Mists of Avalon (Zimmer-Bradley), Flesh and Blood (Cunningham), plus tons of other fantasy novels by Mercedes Lackey, Frank Herbert, Patricia McKillip, Robert Jordan (RIP), George R.R. Martin (Please finish the story, George. Please) and Raymond Feist to name just a few.
Movies: Lion in Winter, X-Men movies, so many others...
Music: Folk music...mostly chicks with guitars: Indigo Girls, Brandi Carlile, Patty Griffin, Girlyman and on and on and on
The six things I could never do without
It turns out my iPhone is pretty damned handy, although it's embarrassing to admit it. My motorcycle, although in Seattle I mostly just look longingly at it in the non-summer. My bicycle, although it sits unused next to the motorcycle a lot. My friends.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The plot twists and hidden hints in Game of Thrones, how to do my job better, the exactly perfect right word for a poem, where I can next ride my motorcycle. You know, random shit.
On a typical Friday night I am
Hanging with friends, watching a movie, getting outside. I often think I'll stay up and go out to a bar, but then the effects of the week catch up and I don't.
You should message me if
If you know who you are and at least have an idea of what you want. Or if you just want to meet for coffee.