CountAtreju
38 Vienna, Austria
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My self-summary
Hedonistic, intense and liberal. Uninhibited and passionate. Teetotaler. ENTJ.

Politically pro-EU, leftwing liberal.

Openly polyamorous and in a poly / open relationship (and actually looking for another partner to share the joy of this alternative lifestyle with). Not available for monogamous relationships, even more strictly not available for the relationship escalator.

Strong preference for a proper relationship over casual sex.
What I’m doing with my life
I create music - I write it, play it, feel it.

Besides that I like to do sports, hang out with friends and karaoke bars and simply enjoy what life has to offer, including improvisation theater and doing community organization work for the polyamory community in Vienna.

To quote Steppenwolf ("Born to be wild"):

"Looking for adventure, and whatever comes my way."
I’m really good at
Singing, writing and recording songs, cooking.

Not good yet at snowboarding, but I'm certainly good at enjoying a fun day at the ski resort.
The first things people usually notice about me
The fact that I'm 100% "me".

My level of energy, possibly - and that I'm quite emotional, in a good way.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: just read the "Neverending Story" again, which was my favorite book when I was a kid... and I still love it

Movies: black humor, vampire stuff, Quentin Tarantino and the likes, any intelligent and fun film will do as well, sci fi

Music: Classical music, old skool rock, modern metal

Food: International and fusion, paleo tendencies

However, one of my absolute favorite dishes to cook is Jambalaya - a friend showed me once how to do it and I totally fell in love with it.

Drinks: Fruit tea, hand grounded coffee, interestingly flavoured black tea, non - alcoholic beer, Red Bull

Why I don't drink alcohol (I got asked that a few times here):

I have a very interesting life with lots of great people around me, exciting events and intimacy... losing evenings and "morning afters" to a drug has become totally unacceptable for me - don't worry, I'm enjoying myself a lot when partying. :-D
The six things I could never do without
Music, learning new things, coffee, something to strive for, friendship, affection.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Songs... my own songs, but also the songs other people wrote.

Philosophy, science, ethics, too.
On a typical Friday night I am
...at a poly meetup or a BDSM playparty.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
...is in my biography, between the chapters called 'heaven' and 'hell'.
You should message me if
...you want depth and intensity.

...you are sensual and open minded.

...you are emotional.

...you at least would like to give a life less ordinary ;-) a chance

Bonus points if you have read "The Ethical Slut" and / or "More than two". ;-)

(Please don't contact me if you are looking for a monogamous relationship. I do appreciate your ideas in theory, but I have never seen it working really well in reality, and it is certainly not the right kind of relationship for me. We can still become friends, though.)
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