43Walnut Creek, United States
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My self-summary
I'm pretty direct and honest so figure I won't beat around the bush. I'm a sex positive, kinky, poly Dom who's exploring this site a bit because so many of my friends have been using it and have found some pretty amazing people. I have an existing poly relationship, I'm part of the public scene here in the SF Bay Area, I'm a successful tech executive, educated, former collegiate volleyball player and parts of my private life will stay that way for now.

I love reading, movies, and the theater; I spend as much time as I can riding around the hills behind my place and all over California and beyond when I have more time. I think just about everything is better with coffee, and chocolate. And I stay in shape running and swimming mostly, though I'll throw some weights and other workouts in when I have the time.

I'll continue to fill out the profile as I spend more time here so feel free to ask me anything you want to know that you don't see!
What I’m doing with my life
A few years ago I got divorced and decided to have my lifestyle reflect who I am, not who I was. And I'm enjoying every minute of meeting new people and living my life safely and sanely to it's fullest.
I’m really good at
Florentine flogging, intellectual discourse, being absurd as much as I'm serious, D/s and flirting...
The first things people usually notice about me
My height, I'm 6'5", then my hair, beard and blue eyes...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Too many great books to list, so here are my favorite authors: Tolkien, Dan Simmons, David Brin, Anne Rice, Isaac Asimov, Steven Erikson, Orson Scott Card (except his crazy Mormon shit...), Arthur C. Clarke & Larry Niven

Movies: Lost Boys, Better Off Dead, Empire Strikes Back, Blade Runner, Dune, Holy Grail, Happy Gilmore, Wayne's World, Princess Bride, Wrath of Kahn, 300, Sin City, Dodgeball, Pulp Fiction, Clockwork Orange, Labyrinth, Pan's Labyrinth, most Kevin Smith movies and Pixar too.

Bands: Metallica, Linkin Park, Skrillex, Chemical Brothers, Paul Oakenfold, Zepplin, Alice in Chains, Guns N' Roses, Bruno Mars & Maroon 5, Bingo Players and Hardwell.

Food: A Good Steak, Sushi/Sashimi, Chicken Parmigiana, Jerk Chicken, awesome burritos & great hamburgers
Six things I could never do without
The ones I love
My friends
My family
Physical affection and intimacy
A Harley

Honorable mentions: A great scotch and a good cigar, and Football.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
New business models and marketing opportunities for various businesses I care about or want to start.
On a typical Friday night I am
I'm either at home for family time. Or going out to dinner, getting some coffee at my favorite kinky coffee shop, and then relaxing in our local bdsm dungeon play space with our wonderful community of friends and loved ones.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I usually read your profile backwards.

I judge those that can't come up with anything at all to write here or cop out and say ask me...
You should message me if
You are interested in, or in learning about, kink. You want to be the small spoon, and reflect that openly publicly and privately. You want to meet someone who is dominant and can help you explore things you've always wanted to try or just need to live. And if you just want to be friends, or you might want to see if we have a connection and go for a ride, grab a drink or maybe coffee and go from there...
The two of us