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My self-summary
"The Privilege of a lifetime is being who you are." - Joseph Campbell

So here's where I get to talk about myself, although I admit it's begrudgingly done. I'm not the kind that likes to brag about myself or don labels about what I am. I believe in hard work. I'm kind of old school. I help old ladies across the street, I love animals, I hold doors for anybody within 10 seconds of walking through the door, even though I know they are perfectly capable of opening it. I have a 'live and let live' philosophy in life. I guess I'm a dinosaur. I stay pretty clean cut, although my face can get stubbly if I don't feel like shaving for a week.

I'm fairly independent, and I need space sometimes. I tend to identify more with the downtrodden and oppressed. I am open minded and I'm very liberal. I'm in the Green Party. Also, I'm an atheist, but not one of those that get offended by EVERYTHING. In fact, it probably won't even come up and I'd even go to church with you. Theology is one of those things that have always been alluring to me.

Positives: I can be fiery, charismatic, and I hear that I'm a good kisser. I'm fiercely loyal to a fault. I'm well read, but I wouldn't impress anybody with my tiny book collection.

So what the hell am I looking for? I'm living just about any single guy's dream. I don't need somebody to "complete" me, but I think it would be awesome to have somebody around that I would hit it off with.
What I’m doing with my life
"All you need in life is ignorance and confidence, and then success is sure." - Mark Twain

I'm a bass player in a punk band. We get regular play during the Riot Radio program on 91.3 in Tulsa/Claremont, Ok. If you like punk rock, you should listen to it.
(Shameless plug)

I'm also starting a grindcore band with a friend and a former bandmate. I like heavy music.

I'm gainfully employed as a technician an automotive shop. The bills get paid, food finds it's way to the table, and it finances all the other shit I like to do.

I just moved to Bethany and I live with roomies and a bunch of cats, none of which are my own, but they hangout with me. The cats, I mean. If you're allergic, that's your warning.
I’m really good at
"Music in the soul can be heard by the universe." - Lao Tzu

I'm good at music, or so I think. A lot of people want me to be in their bands, and I always hear compliments. And I hate "yes men", so that's that.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
"Find what you love, and let it kill you." -Bukowski

When I say my taste in music is eclectic, I don't mean it the way most of you probably do. Electronic instrumentation and folk rock are mainly lost on me. I prefer heavier sounds. Or trippy ones. I like the musician to have some goddamn soul. Like Al Green.

Food: I'm a taco addict. I also like burgers and fries. I also like exotic things. Whatever. If it tastes good, I'll eat it.

Movies: I grew up with sci-fi. I was molded in it. I also like goofy comedies. Sometimes I like a foreign film or an independent. What I don't like is Michael Bay bullshit, or "Fast and Furious" bullshit.

TV: I watch Hulu and netflix mainly, but I like animated shows quite a bit. I think Archer is my spirit guide.

Video games: Somewhere along the way, I fell out of love with violent games and MMOs. I mostly play Wii U titles because I don't think I can stomach another shooter. Splatoon is about as hardcore as I get now. Zelda and Mario games still rock my ass, as they've always done since I got my first NES back in 1987. I do some PC gaming, but probably nothing you'd like.

Comedy: Doug Stanhope, Patton Oswalt, Sarah Silverman, Amy Schumer, David Cross, Bill Hicks, etc.

Beers: If I'm chilling out and drinking cheap, I'll usually go with Rolling Rock or Miller Light. If I'm splurging a bit, I like IPAs, Stouts, Pale Ales, etc. I really like beer the way a lot of yuppies pretend to like wine. Except that I really like what I like and I'm not trying to make some pretentious facebook post about it. I don't hit the sauce like I did in my twenties, but I do have a pretty big tolerance when I do hit up the bar on occasion.
The six things I could never do without
iPad, cellphone, family, tacos, guitar, car.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
"Who are we? We find that we live on an insignificant planet of a humdrum star lost in a galaxy tucked away in some forgotten corner of a universe in which there are far more galaxies than people." Hail Sagan.

How many times will I have to insta-block that girl? A quick background: there's a girl on this site that makes a new profile, chats me up for a few days, then ghosts me for a month. I'll be just chilling one night and a new visitor pops up with a high match percentage and tattoos. I accidentally click on her and it all starts again. It's frustrating because I kind of like her, but fuck emotional roller coasters.

Fuck yo couch!
On a typical Friday night I am
Usually, I'm at home smoking crack and worshipping the devil.

A few Fridays ago, I watched a compelling youtube video interview with a guy who rescued both of his daughters from the clutches of the Sea Org of Scientology and his brainwashed ex wife. I couldn't get enough of it.

Last Friday, I played a show at the HiLo club and nobody showed up. I got paid in beer.
You should message me if
You are in a strange cult or were. I'm fascinated by this in a sort of theological sense. Strange religions are kind of my guilty pleasure.

You think we would hit it off, and you have a record player that works.

You made it through this and laughed more than winced.

You won't hold it against me when I dork out to this:

You can pretty much like whatever you want, or believe whatever you want. I don't want to change somebody. If your preferred method of conflict resolution involves screaming in your front yard at the top of your lungs, GTFO. (Added because neighbors are doing that right now.)

Mainly, I'm looking for a relationship with another mature adult who also likes to go to shows and have some fun.