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My self-summary
I'm the person you want in your corner. The person you want to give you an awesome hug. The person you could spend the rest of your life with and never run out of things to talk about.

I'm a realistic dreamer. A cautious optimist.

I'm a writer, a geek and will change the world one day.
What I’m doing with my life
Right now I'm in the middle of starting the grand adventure that will be 30. And I think that I'll be doing that by moving cross country, to the Seattle Area by August 2017.

I'm working hard on being financially independent this year by starting several small businesses with friends and by myself.

I'm working on a Tabletop Startup that will provide Dungeons & Dragons players the ability to custom order their own campaigns.

I'm also a certified Matchmaker and am looking to start helping people find love and more.
Also working on starting a consultant Fetishist Club that will provide people knowledge, experience and guidance when following their sexual goals and desires to lead a happy and healthy sexual life.

I'm also a writer, my own blog to outlets like Adam4Adam as well as working on my own novels.
I’m really good at
Standing up for what I believe in, no matter how unpopular that makes me.

I'm a loud mouth. I have a blog and write for sever websites, even have the honor of writing regularly for the worlds largest gay personal website/blog.

I'm an amazing singer, I actually have awards and won contest. So if karaoke is a good date idea for you, prepare to be weak at the knees.
(Recently I went to a writing conference and there was karaoke at the bar. I ended up singing a few times and when I went to a book signing Christopher Rice (Anne's son) inscribed my book with "Thanks for the best Zoot Suit Riot EVER!". I can die happy that one of my idols loved my karaoke, lol)

I'm an idea engine. I can literally after a few hours thinking on situations can pump out ideas and plans like there is no tomorrow.

I'm one of the most resilient people you'll ever meet as well. I may fall down and be out for a little bit, but once I hit bottom I rocket up to the top. I'm never down and out.
The first things people usually notice about me
Never fails that I walk into a room or close contact with someone and get a comment about how good I smell. I take personal hygiene seriously and have a nice collection of colognes and hair products that result in obviously a pleasing scent.

I have an air of authority around me that people notice, even when I am not trying to be in charge and no one even knows me in a room: people will approach and ask me what to do.

I also have very pale blue eyes, people always comment.

I have a necklace pendant I bought in Germany. It's always a conversation piece.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books, my god do I love books. I'm a huge reader, I've got a Kindle DX that I've had for years and it always get's a work out.
Pop Culture I've Read:
Harry Potter
A Song of Ice and Fire
The Wicked Series
The Southern Vampire Mystery Series
Percy Jackson/Heroes of Olympus
The Hannibal Lector Series
The Hollows Series
His Dark Materials
The Looking Glass Wars
The Animorph Series (This helped shape my childhood)
The Dingilliad
The Hunger Games
The Vampire Chronicles

Random Books that if you've heard of we need to talk:
Anything by Max Berry (Jennifer Government, Syrup, Company)
Anything by David Gerrold
Leaves of Grass
The Writings of Anton LaVey
House of Leaves
When Worlds Collide
The Disappearance
Alas, Babylon
The Amityville Horror
The Complete works of William Shakespeare
The Complete works of Edgar Allen Poe

My favorite singer is Amy Lee, the sole survivor of the original Evanescence. If you have a negative thing to say about her, out sing her in front of me and I'll then listen to you.

I enjoy the modern sounds of many bands and artist.
Right now I'm obsessed with Postmodern Jukebox and LOVE Marina & The Diamonds,
Lily Allen,
Chris Issak,
Blue October,
Breaking Benjamin,
Michael Buble,
The Killers,
Bruno Mars,
Swedish House Mafia,
The Yeah, Yeah, Yeahs,
Letters to Cleo and many others.

I do like Lady Gaga, but for more reason than just that she has become an icon. That alone is a good conversation to have.

I also love classical and instrumental music, due to I played Double Bass for 7 years through High School and College.
I'm a fan of Holst, Liszt, Mozart, Tchaikovsky and many others of the past eras. As well as modern composers like Klaus Badelt, Danny Elfman, Nathan Barr...

A lot of my movies bleed over from books. I love 80's/90's comedies like Ruthless People, Drop Dead Fred, War of the Roses.

Shows currently on my watched list:
Survivors (UK)
The 100
The Blacklist
The Americans
The Man in the High Castle
Hemlock Grove
House of Cards
The Clone Wars
Stargate (all of it)
Once Upon a Time (In Wonderland)
American Horror Story
Boardwalk Empire
Mad Men
Avatar (Airbender/Korra)
Game of Thrones
Falling Skies
Parks and Recreation
True Blood
Whose Line
Again there are more, and I have almost an eidetic memory for it all.

I enjoy the flavors of Asia when it comes to foods... but I enjoy many other types. A great med rare steak slathered in garlic, onions and mushrooms is a way to my heart. I am an amazing cook and love experimenting with new creations in the kitchen.

Have recently started making sushi and I'm getting really good at it. Also make an epic bowl of miso soup.
Six things I could never do without
A Large Bed; Lets just push some kings together and wrestle around a bit.

Blank paper and micro point pens. My handwriting is chicken scratch so .05 or finer please.



The ability to hear and talk, I would rather be blind.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
A lot of things. My mind runs a mile a minuet and I'm constantly thinking of stories as I'm beginning to realize that I need to start writing all this down. I have NOVELS worth of stories in my head and I'm sure once I get started with that I won't be able to stop.

Other than that I'm a GIANT geek. I play and typically host several times a week a group of Table top Role players. We play games anywhere from Dungeons & Dragons to The World of Darkness, Star Wars D20, Open D20, Pokemon and a lot more.

The future of my town, state, nation and world.

"Gay culture" and the horribly biased social norms that exist and need to change before we can progress farther as a civil rights movement.

My friends and family.

If my Severus Snape is out there somewhere and if I've already met him.

While I'm an outspoken and easily talkative guy I truly have a deeply dry, cynical and dark sense of humor. But beneath all of that I've got a heart of a true romantic. If I were a Cartoon I'd be Daria.
On a typical Friday night I am
I have a boring day job to pay bills and then I have the writing job. Usually I'm in front of my Chromebox and just typing away about something.

Although recently I've been very into the visual arts as well. Working with acrylics and canvas for the first time, been sketching a lot, working on a modern piece made of old computer parts I had lying around.

Doesn't matter what day it is, I'm doing something interesting.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm an insanely confident and positive person when I have an audience but when I'm alone I can have moments of weakness and self doubt that I can over think and end up ruining an evening alone at home. ENFJ for the win and fail I guess if you're into that sort thing.

I've been arrested before and went to jail for a few days. It wasn't an experience I'd recommend or have an intention on repeating unless it's a damn good reason. While Orange is the New Black is funny, I sometimes get really bad anxiety about things set in jail/prison. The "Justice" system in this country is way out of line and I hope to see that changed before I die.

I have 9 tattoo's, 6 of which are geek tied to a fictional universe I love.
You should message me if
You want to have a real conversation and meet someone you'll never forget.
The two of us