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My self-summary
I'm a fairly intelligent, verbal, sincere, slightly offbeat guy. I love exploring cities, hiking and nature, restaurants, nightlife, design, psychology, philosophy, dancing, partying, sociology, literature, and humor.

I tend to take things pretty intensely, However, my sense of humor is pretty wacky and lighthearted. But in general I tend to like guys who are more laid-back and less serious than I am.

I'm an ENFP. (Fairly extreme on the N)

Feel free to add me on Facebook. Just please let me know ahead of time, so I can give it out to you.

I find fanciful and romanticized things really charming, especially fascinated by romantic ideas about the past. I am the kind of person who tends to like things that would make your grandmother say "Isn't that just lovely!", like quaint country inns. I am constantly making puns, and am well known among friends and family for my love of monkeys

I'm from Connecticut originally and I strongly identify with the Northeast, although I like many different places.

I especially like bi guys, and also especially like guys who are youthful but in a masculine kind of way, who might have sort of an endearing boyishness to them.

I would hope to be with someone who thinks that even if we're each other's boyfriend, we can also be each other's bro. I feel like maybe I have a sort of similar view of homosexuality to the Greco-Romans, like the sort of brotherly way they looked at it.

Interestingly, even though I'm not a gamer I tend to be really attracted to them for some reason.
What I’m doing with my life
I just graduated from Goucher College, majoring in Philosophy and minoring in Psychology), I have more of an interest these days in becoming either a philosophy, sociology, literature/English, Religion, or psychology professor or being an urban planner/community organizer of some sort, or being a writer, social scientist, high school English teacher, or in advertising.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Movies: Magnolia, Sybil, Crash, Chinatown, Fight Club, Ordinary People, Brazil, Stand By Me, Airplane, Naked Gun, Wall Street, American Beauty, Blazing Saddles, The Knowing, Yellow Submarine, Any Given Sunday, Hard Eight, Mallrats. The Matrix. Psycho. Zero Dark Thirty. Opera version of Oedipus Rex, The Truman Show, The Island, Scary Movie, Die Hard, Total Recall, 2001: A Space Odyssey

Books/Stories (I like short stories more than "actual" books)-Stuff White People Like, The Yellow Wallpaper, The Rememberer, Blink, The Tipping Point, Outliers, Book of the Tao, any of Dave Barry's humor books, I am America and so can you, America the Book, Nine Stories, Catcher in the Rye, . The Minister's Black Veil. The Fall of the House of Usher. A Perfect Day for Bananafish. Oedipus Rex, Narcissus. Welcome to the Monkey House, I Never Promised You a Rose Garden, The Gay Science (Nietzsche), Soul Beneath the Skin (a book about the social relationships and emotional lives of gay men) I Don't Want to Talk About It (Book about male depression), The Healing Connection

Writers: Friedrich Nietzsche, Martin Heidegger, Jean-Francois Lyotard, James Hillman, Malcolm Gladwell, Christian Lander, Erving Goffman, Antonin Artaud, Alphonso Lingis, Avital Ronell, Emmanuel Levinas, Dave Barry, Stephen Colbert, Maurice Blanchot, Giorgio Agamben, Gilles Deleuze, Felix Guattari, Carl Jung, Anne Tyler, JD Salinger, Richard Rorty, Susan Sontag, Camille Paglia, Jacques Derrida, RD Laing, Oliver Sacks, Edgar Allen Poe, Abraham Maslow, Joseph Campbell, Terrence Real, David Nimmons, Peter Nardi, Oscar Wilde, Sigmund Freud

I need more beach reading

Shows- Law and Order (all of them), Grace and Frankie, Family Guy, Robot Chicken, Seinfield, Six Feet Under, Daily Show, Colbert Report, Chopped, Food Network in general, The X-Files, Comedy Central Presents, In Treatment, Monty Python's Flying Circus (mainly because of the animation), Mission Impossible, 21 Jump Street, Picket Fences, Legends of the Hidden Temple, Video Challenge (Nick Arcade), Are You Afraid of the Dark?, Alfred Hitchcock Presents, The Golden Girls, Sex and the City (although I hate Carrie), Desperate Housewives, Whose Line is It Anyway (original British version), The Pink Panther cartoon,

Music-Nicky Minaj, Madonna, Telepopmusik, Bassnectar, Mt. Eden, Dubstep in general, Electronica in general, Zero 7, Moby, Dr. Dre, DMX, Eminem, Jadakiss, Ludacris, Lil Kim, Eve, Snoop Dogg, Rap in general especially female rappers and remixes with a zillion people, Nickleback, Coldplay, Third Eye Blind, Lit, 80s and early 90s music in general, Aimee Mann, Lovers, Rihanna, Lady Gaga, anything danceable (love to dance!), Dar Williams, Beirut, Lily Allen, Neutral Milk Hotel, Red Hot Chili Peppers, Postal Service, Sublime, Bright Eyes, Black Eyed Peas, Nelly Furtado, Dido, Laura Nyro, Dougie Maclean, horror movie theme music, African music, Dave Matthews Band, Tool, , and Incubus

Food- Hard to remember off the top of my head the exact foods I like but I love anything with cheese, chocolate, garlic, sage, carmelized onions, aioli, pesto, breading, or anything spicy and creamy at the same time, especially red meat with horseradish sauce. Chicken Parm is awesome, so is Rack of Lamb and Chocolate Mousse and Flourless Chocolate Cake. I especially like French and Italian food. If I had to pick a favorite cuisine though, it would be modernized gourmet comfort food, if that counts as a cuisine. I love macaroni and cheese, especially if it has breadcrumbs on the top.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I havent experienced as much happiness as many people. I can have a pretty gloomy perspective at times
You should message me if
You think I sound interesting from my self-description. Of course anyone who wants to message me can feel free, but feel especially free if you are bi, a gamer who also likes going out, a math & science guy who appreciates the humanities, or have a similar view of homosexuality to me, Especially if you fit multiple of these-but even if you don't fit any of them, still give it a shot.

I'm happy to chat and am looking for friends in general as well as eventually a boyfriend or at least cuddle buddy. Would be happy to meet up with someone on here just as friends if we hit it off

Wouldn't mind finding more people to explore Baltimore and/or DC with

By the way, when I put "casual sex" in what I'm looking for, I'm also happy just to meet new folks in general, so if you're not interested in a fwb, don't be scared away. Friends with benefits is one thing I'm open to, but not the sole reason I'm on this website. And there's a reason it has the words "friends" in it anyhow.

Ask for my cell to text or add me on Skype or Facebook if we hit it off on OkCupid and you wanna talk more. Just let me know beforehand :) I find its a easier way to get to know people than OkCupid chat
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