I'm hobby driven and independent, so I tend to find something I enjoy and try to get good at it. I guess I'm engineer minded, so I stick to efficiency and rationality, but at the same time I don't take life too seriously. Music is also a big part of my life and playing drums is my unwinding ritual after work.
I find thinker/problem solver types attractive (I'm sapiosexual?) Someone assertive is nice, but if you're laid back that's cool too. Either way, I'm not interested in being traditionally minded so I connect well with other impartial peoples.
Putting the finishing touches on an open-source game engine that I'm writing in my free time. I also just bought a house in Philly and live by myself, so also up-keeping and occasional maintenance on that.
Most of the music I listen to is also the stuff I like to play on drums. So a lot of metal, rock, and some progressive and punk stuff. I'll appreciate most music that isn't shallow though, and basically none of my friends listen to metal so I end up consuming a lot of other genres.
I drink my coffee black, my beer hoppy, and my whiskey neat. I sometimes eat food too!