I find thinker/problem solver types attractive (I'm sapiosexual?) Someone assertive is nice, but if you're laid back that's cool too. Either way, I'm not interested in being traditionally minded so I connect well with other impartial peoples.
Putting the finishing touches on an open-source game engine that I'm writing in my free time. I also just bought a house in Philly and live by myself, so also up-keeping and occasional maintenance on that.
Most of the music I listen to is also the stuff I like to play on drums. So a lot of metal, rock, and some progressive and punk stuff. I'll appreciate most music that isn't shallow though, and basically none of my friends like metal so I end up listening to a lot of other stuff.
I drink my coffee black, my beer hoppy, and my whiskey neat. I sometimes eat food too!