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My self-summary
**Beyond here there be Dragons...

I will not attempt to dazzle any reader with my travels, or attempt to impress with my triumphs. Or place my best foot forward in hopes that these colorful feathers will attract a suitable mate. I am beyond such veneer.

I see though the reality of life and living it. I have mined for mysteries and found none, although there are some lovely curiosities.

I have proclivities.

I seek connection. To connect richly with another in a manner that makes the messiness of human connection worthwhile.

Yes, I overthink things. No, I am not easily impressed. Yes, I can be intense.

Pablo Picasso was banned from several museums after being caught editing his works. That is how I see life. A constant revision. Employing Heisenberg's principle of uncertainty daily.

I am not everyone's cup of tea. Nor do I care to be.

I care more for where you are going than where you have been.

**Disclaimer: Do not make the mistake of perceiving the above statements as being the whole of me, there is a chance I will edit it later.

Now, let's have a game of deductions...
What I’m doing with my life
I have completed my master's degree and am working in public mental health
I’m really good at
Watching movies, even Siskel and Ebert gave me two thumbs up.
The first things people usually notice about me
My bald head
My eyes
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
The Ocean at the End of the Lane, Les Miserable, The Spirit Catches You and and You Fall Down, DSM - V, The Girl Who Fell From the Sky, Shakespeare, What is Contemporary Art?, Gutai, The Iliad and Odesy, Friday, Dead Until Dark, James Carroll, The Hunchback of Notre Dame, And The Band Played On, Shibari You Can Use, Harry Potter (the entire series), One For The Morning Glory, It, Christine, The Hunger Games, To Kill a Mocking Bird, The Hobbit, Lord of the Rings (series). Just to name a few.

I mostly go for sci-fi and Fantasy. I will take a good drama, I have been known to watch the occasional romance. I enjoy a good period piece. I also enjoy well done documentaries.


The Walking Dead, Dr. Who, Torchwood, Once Upon a Time, Lost Girl, Firefly, True Blood, Sherlock,

Country, Alternative, Rock, Opera, Classical, I recently discovered a band named "First Aid Kit." Brilliant.
Six things I could never do without
I've learned to live without most things.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Everything. Too much really.
On a typical Friday night I am
In the Gym or working.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I've been on the crew of a sinking ship
You should message me if
I am interested in finding someone who has weathered a few storms in life, and come away from it more compassionate as opposed to becoming jaded. Someone who can find beauty in all things.

Also if you like wine, bourbon and going to the mountains hit me up.

Want to see a movie.

Have a long discussion about the "isms" that plague our society.

Are an artist, or musician, or have some other talent that you enjoy sharing.

You are halfway decent at being you.
The two of us