Crisvend
36 Table View, South Africa
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My self-summary
So, I was born in Jo'burg and moved to Portugal when I was 9. I spent all my life there, not feeling at home and not identifing my core belifs with those of the Portuguese society.
January 2nd 2013, I arrived in CT alone and without knowing anyone here or the city itself.

I'm brutally honest and not looking
Sapiosexual and intense. Interesting conversations sprinkled with silliness. Having childlike fun. Not childish!
The bluntness can be a laugh if u have a dirty mind too.
178cm. Luso-South African. Left Portugal 3 years ago.
I'm returning to Portugal in July.
Until then I'd like to find someone who would like to have fun and go on some adventures with me. Like: Bungee jumping; Zip Lining; Shark Cage diving; Road Trips; snuggling at home... Suggestions?

Personally I love music so concerts and festivals are a must (if with good company), watching football, rugby, tennis.
Going out with a group of potential and/or friends to a bar to have a drink and talk about absurd things with the sole intention of being silly and having a good time.
I have quite an incisive sense of humor, loaded with all kind of unorthodox things to say and absolutely politically incorrect. I'm gifted also with a dirty mind. Well I lived in Portugal and when in Rome...
But I also believe that humor can be found in anything and we must try not to take ourselves and others too

Highly intuitive, more often than not I see right through bullshit so don't waste both our times; obligatory characteristics: honesty, integrity, goodness, kindness, sense of humor, empathetic.

As it seems so popular and in demand these days, I'd just like to add that I'm ENFJ
What I’m doing with my life
Looking for good friends.
A companion would make me a happier and more secure person but good friends can also provide that much needed feeling.
I just want the "technicalities" of my life in order.
Finding peace of mind and getting to know myself and forever bettering the person I will evolve into.
I’m really good at
Making people laugh. General knowledge. Communicating. Conversing. Helping others. Giving my opinion. Not judging. Loyalty. Honesty. Kindness.
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile and sense of humor. Some point out that I'm sexy. But if I am it's not a conscious way of presenting myself.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Too many books that changed my life.
But the one that saved my life was "The Book of Disquiet" by Fernando Pessoa. "The Little Prince" humbles me and makes me return to simpler more humane ways.
These are just a couple of reasons that got me to tattoo both on my body.

Movie? "Wit" with Emma Thompson. A HBO movie. Got it but very difficult to find otherwise...

Series. Lots of them but I love medical based ones... Clever comedies... British Humor... Nonsense... Intelligent plots that keep me guessing...

Food? Braai's I guess. I don't pay a lot of attention to food....
FYI: don't like cheese and still have to get used to wine...
The six things I could never do without
Mother
My 2 cats: Loki and Ivan
Friendship
Music.
Laughter.
Loyalty
Love
So there are 7... What are you going to do about it?!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Everything. Yep, drives me crazy but my mind is an ininterrupted machine.
On a typical Friday night I am
Doing something fun with a new group of potential friends. Reading or watching TV/series or chatting on the phone. Lol 😁
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I usually take the first step and send guys msg if their profile interests me.
It seems that either due to not being interested in chatting with me or shyness or some other reason, most guys don't reach out to me.
I confess that when I "like" a profile I'm secretly hoping that the guy wil understand and msg me first.
Everyone needs ego boosts too...
😔
You should message me if
If you'd like to get to know me better and embark with me on this journey of finally discovering Cape Town.
And a part of myself too.
Or basically if anything tickles your fancy...
LIMITED TIME OFFER...
Lol!!!
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