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My self-summary
I'm a polyamorous pansexual unicorn. I'm interested in finding people who are interested in friendship and perhaps casual sexy times, with the possibility of more. I'm hoping to meet more Ladies and Enbees, but I will entertain the possibility of finding couples to hang with as well.

Between work, rehearsals, and performances, I don't have a lot of free time, but I will always make time for the right people.

In varying degrees I love the beach, the woods, the city, the stars, camping, gaming, swimming, dressing up, speaking in accents for no reason, the psychology behind Foster's Home for Imaginary Friends, D&D characters with backstories, joyous sexual experimentation, road trips, weird dancing, weird foods, taking pictures, making up stories, karaoke, and staying up far later than I should, which is probably why this may be a little odd...

I am whimsical, magical, and passionate.

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Disclaimer: I have high-risk HPV(cervical, not warts), and it shows up from time to time. Disclosing was very hard, and some folks were very rude about it. If you can't be honest about your health and history, don't bother talking to me.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm currently looking for new employment while preparing for my next theatrical production. I love to perform on stage, but I also love working behind the curtain and in the wings. I've written shows, managed stages and even entire productions and I love it. I love every chaotic stupid frustrating silly moment of it, and I want to be able to find a way to support myself doing it so I can do it forever.
I'm also a huge geek, so I'm hoping to find new and exciting ways to blend my favorite things into something epic. Rock Band Burlesque? Strip Pathfinder? Dramatic staged readings of slashfic? I'm pretty open to suggestions...

I don't know what the future holds but I certainly don't want to wait for someone else to spell it out for me.
I’m really good at
Finding beauty in almost everything. I have been able to inspire even the snarkiest queen to crack a genuine smile.

I tend to be the cheer and the leader of the party; not by choice, but usually because I'm the best one for the job.

I'm also pretty serious cuddleslut and I will kill for a good backrub.
The first things people usually notice about me
The eyes? The smile? Seriously, of late it's been all about the infectious euphoria, but it's just a front, I swear.

I guess the first thing people usually notice is how boisterous I am when I get excited. Take that as you will... *^_^*
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Favorite authors include Chuck Palaniuk, Neil Gaiman, China Mieville, Terry Pratchett, & Robert Heinlein. I like horror, scifi, suspense, mystery, surrealism and fantasy, with a healthy dose of camp as well. My comfort movies as a kid were The Princess Bride, Labyrinth, The Dark Crystal, and the Last Unicorn. And by 'kid,' I mean last week.
Music fluctuates so frequently; right now I've got a bunch of ecclectic crap on my player; Electro, Goth, Broadway, techno-pop, R&B, 80's new wave, Industrial , J-Rock, and British steampunk rapping... I'm mostly a New Romantic kind of chick, but I've been branching out a lot more recently, so I'm game for almost anything you throw at me. Most of my commute is spent listening to podcasts; No Such Thing as A Fish, Ask Me Another, Welcome to Nightvale, and the Myths and Legends podcast.

Foodwise, I love trying new things, and like the good little Italian girl that I am will likely eat at least a little bit of whatever you put in front of me(take that as you will). I tend to stick to fresh and healthy, but I do like a good sundae every now and then. I clean up pretty well and can handle my own in a swanky place.  

No general category? Let me see who & what I've missed; Doctor Who, Doctor Horrible, & Doctor Steel(in that order), Firefly(the show and the vodka), Foster's Home for Imaginary Friends, Sherlock, Orphan Black, Farscape, Black Books, Torchwood, Fringe, IT Crowd, White Wolf, Pathfinder(and most roleplaying in general), Dexter(live-action and cartoon), Hedwig, almost all of the Zeldas, Katamari, Halo, Portal 1 & 2, and Rock Band 3(yay keyboards!).
I am currently replaying Neverwinter Nights on my laptop, and navigating the slight glitchiness of a Windows game on an Ubuntu machine, but loving it nonetheless.
Six things I could never do without
I really hate these sort of questions without quantifiers. Let's pretend they asked what sort of stuff will keep me from destroying all humans!

-An audio player (for music and audio books)

-Unlined paper & a mechanical pencil (for doodles or writing, depending on my mood)

-My collapsible chopsticks (so many uses, so little time!)

-Random pieces of fabric that could be modified to create impromptu accessories or furoshiki

-An unfinished project (because, really, what's the point if you don't have something to look forward to?)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Exotic animals fighting each other toho-style while dressed as Lolita space pirates.

(Honestly, most of my time I spend thinking about where I am and what I'm doing, but that's hardly interesting, is it?)
On a typical Friday night I am
Usually performing somewhere. Work is hard, right? ^_^

As my schedule fluctuates, I don't tend to wait for a Friday night to go and do interesting things. One of my favorite things about living in a city is that you don't have to wait until Friday to do something awesome.  I love karaoke and performing in drag and goth dancing when I'm not absolutely exhausted. Sometimes I would rather find a friend who wants to play video games all night, or just walk around town and explore parts of the city we wouldn't otherwise get to see.  Sometimes I'll just take a book to the park and pretend to read while I watch all the people walk around and make up stories in my head about where they are going and why they decided to dress the way they did today...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I believe strongly in open sexuality and free love, but I also believe in romancing the right person can be the most amazing and powerful thing in the world...

I'm also amazed by how much I like MLP:FIM.
You should message me if
You're curious about anything I've said so far and want to know more.
You like the idea of dressing up like something from the past, present or future. Made-up alternate realities count too.
You can sing, or dance, or do both if properly motivated.
You can create characters in your head and wouldn't mind bringing them out into the real world.
You have worn unconventional clothing in public.
You have played Mage and found it awesome.
You aren't intimidated by the idea of going out and doing adventurous things in addition to sitting around and being geeky.
You like adventure.
You like being geeky.
The two of us