31 Lafayette, United States
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My self-summary
I am an easy-going guy who is looking for a serious relationship and hopefully some fun along the way. When I say I am looking for a serious relationship, I don’t mean that you have to be in love with me to send me a message or that I will pop the question on the first date. I just mean that I know where I want to end up and I am not afraid of commitment if you are the right person.

Family is very important to me. Unfortunately, my immediate family lives in California right now but I keep in touch with them and I enjoy spending time with them whenever I have the opportunity.

I am a Christian because I believe Christianity is true. This deeply affects my worldview and makes me in some ways “countercultural”. Maybe old fashioned is another phrase for it. In any case, I think the root of morality is Jesus’ command to “love your neighbor as yourself”. I am very interested in studying the Bible and theologians/philosophers. I admire the works of C.S. Lewis and N.T. Wright with “Mere Christianity” being one of my favorites. I guess you need to have two initials in front of your last name if you want to do good theology. ;)

I have a number of interests and hobbies. I like music, singing, video editing, science, Netflix, languages, card games(Nertz, Phase 10 etc), pool, Settlers of Catan. I pretty much expect to pick up some interests from my partner and have some shared interests and some individual ones.

Personality-wise I do consider myself very different from most people. I am very honest. I will generally say things in a nice way but I am unlikely to lie. I am slow to anger and am not interested in arguing or "being right". I might argue if I feel strongly about something. I am very moral. I am not the funniest person and it can take me a while to be comfortable around people. I have a strong filter so I will tend to be silent rather than say something I think is stupid. Often, I will come up with multiple stupid ideas in a row and then just not say anything. I am generally very happy and not very materialistic.

Also, I am INTJ if you are into that sort of thing.
What I’m doing with my life
In 2008 I graduated with a degree in engineering and have been developing my career in a high-tech company since then. I do enjoy my job and I take it seriously but I also remember that it is a way to make money and while it might be a way I describe myself, it isn’t something that defines me.
The first things people usually notice about me
I don’t really know. I want it to be something complimentary like my eyes but in reality it is probably something like “this guy has a big nose”.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
A short list of my favorite movies:

Noah, Zoolander, Memento, The Prestige, Sunshine, Silver Linings Playbook, Lord of the Rings, Elf, Star Wars, The Matrix, The Imitation Game, Prisoners, The X-Men Movies, Predestination, The Heat, The Hurt Locker, Maleficent, Underworld, 50 First Dates, Into the Woods, Frozen, Time Lapse

Italian and Mexican food are my favorite although I eat most kinds.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What people really mean when they say things.
On a typical Friday night I am
With family, friends, or relaxing at home watching Netflix
You should message me if
You are mentally and emotionally stable, don’t love the drama, and think we have something in common.