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My self-summary
*Warning* Trans Woman!

If that didn't scare you off...

Maybe this will: I'm an ordained priest in a radically inclusive Christian denomination, live in an intentional community, am forming an ecumenical religious order, and am a member of a feminist health collective.

Less to not scary...
People have told me I’m sweet, fun, funny, wacky (in a good way), loving, caring, smart, exciting, emotional, sensitive but brave, wonderfully cuddly & incredibly cute.

I’m religious AND spiritual - a mystic really, and a proud geek. I’m on a quest to be a better me, even when it means making big, scary changes and confronting unpleasantness head on. I’m open, I don't shy away from questions, and I’m patient.
What I’m doing with my life
Pastoring a mostly queer congregation, supporting just healthcare in an unjust system.
I’m really good at
Listening, writing, loving.
The first things people usually notice about me
You'd have to ask them.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Chuang-tzu, anything by Allison Bechtel or Carla Speed McNeil, Ken Wilber's Integral Spirituality, The Anita Blake series, Harry Potter series, Moorcock's Dancers at the End of Time.
Movies: Hedwig and the Angry Inch, Frankenstein (1931), pretty much any Karloff movie really, most Vincent Price films too, most movies made by Hammer Films, Almodóvar's work, Buñuel as well, current favs: Perks of Being a Wallflower, Your Sister's Sister, Adjustment Bureau.
Music: Huge Beatles fan, 60s garage/psych in general, 80s underground, new wave, spy music, surf, Bach, samba, cumbia sonidera, western yodeling.
The six things I could never do without
God, love, friends, dancing, art & intellectuals.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
God, love, friends, affection, art & intellectuals.
On a typical Friday night I am
Fridays are the least structured evenings I have.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
See the warning above.
You should message me if
you want to.