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My self-summary
***Update, taking a break for a bit 4/10/14***

I tend to lead a very busy lifestyle, but I adore the opportunity to make new friends when I'm able.

My lifepartner wyckedred is also on this site. We are both poly, and we tend to be pretty open-minded about what life has to offer. Our relationship is stable and strong, and neither of us are interested in changing that.

Some things I enjoy are; curling up with a book in a rainstorm, imbibing excellent coffee, exploring farmer's markets and bookstores, throwing dinner parties, and playing games with friends.

I'm a big guy in a skinny-chair world, but I think it's absurd to be apologetic about it. I'm happy, and comfortable in my skin.
What I’m doing with my life
working as a purchaser, and still trying to be a full time artist
I’m really good at
music, massage, cooking, making truffles, and being silly
The first things people usually notice about me
That I am the brute squad, interesting socks, and pre-Delilah Sampsonish hair
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Jaqueline Carey, Neil Gaiman, Anais Nin, Laurell K. Hamilton, Frank Herbert, C.S. Lewis, Robert Heinlein, Douglas Adams, Mercedes Lackey, Tanya Huff, Sarah Monette, Spider Robinson, Kate Chopin, etc

Movies: Star Wars IV-VI, Indiana Jones, Flash Gordon, The Last Starfighter, Dune, Lord of the Rings, Donnie Darko, Harry Potter, Legend, Labyrinth, Goonies, The Princess Bride, Holy Grail, Meaning of Life, Life of Brian, Baron VonMunchausen, Spaceballs, Blazing Saddles, Young Frankenstein...stien, Buckaroo Bonzai, Boogie Nights, Midnight in the Garden of Good and Evil, Clerks, Clueless, Secretary, Frida, Henry and June, Heavenly Creatures, Like water for chocolate, The Ninth Gate, Impromptu, Amadeus, Rushmore, Ghost World, American Beauty, Lost in Translation, Save the Last Dance, Edward Scissorhands, Much Ado About Nothing, Up, Who Framed Roger Rabbit, Darby O'Gill and the Little People, National Velvet, Cleopatra, Casablanca, Spartacus, Laurence of Arabia, The Godfather, Shane, Tron, The cat from outer space, The Black Hole, The Nightmare Before Christmas, Pulp Fiction, Crouching Tiger Hidden Dragon, Enter the Dragon, Spirited Away, Princess this list got long, and every cheesy 80s movie just about made ever, I am looking at you John Cusack! I may have a movie addiction problem.

Current TV: Project Runway

Old TV: Star Trek OS, Old Doctor Who, Dead Like Me, Xena, Buffy, Firefly, Monty Python's Flying Circus, The Muppet Show, Twin Peaks, Red Dwarf, The Prisoner, Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy, Neverwhere, Spaced, Jeeves and Worster, Land of the Lost, Scooby-doo, Pinky and the Brain

Comics: Eddie Izzard

Music: hmm could be worse than movies. Puccini, Verdi, Mozart, Gounod, Bizet, Rachmoninoff, Wagner, Chopin, Bartok, Schubert, Schumann (both), Debussey, Arvo Part, Gorecki, Lou Harrison, Mediaeval Baebes, Michael Nyman, Candye Kane, Lavay Smith and her Red Hot Skillet Lickers, Billie Holiday, Lee Press On and the Nails, Reverend Horton Heat, VNV Nation, The Dresden Dolls, Rasputina, E Nomine, Emelie Autumn, BiGod20, The Crüxshadows, Apoptygma Berzerk, Voltaire, Wolfsheim, Black Box Recorder, Miranda Sex Garden, Moi Dix Mois, Delerium, Devics, Blonde Redhead, Velvet Acid Christ, The Azoic, :wumpscut:, She Wants Revenge, Belle & Sebastian, sToa, David Bowie, The Beatles, Blue Oyster Cult, Cream, Black Sabbath, The Doors, Styx, Led Zeppelin, Fleetwood Mac, Queen, The Ramones, Jimi Hendrix, Nick Drake, Pink Floyd, Iron Maiden, Flogging Molly, The Donnas, Breeders, The Pixies, Weezer, MC Chris, Richard Cheese, They Might Be Giants, The Arrogant Worms, Weird Al, Tripod and also more cheesy 80s stuff than you can shake a stick at, I loves me some 80s music. If there was bad hair involved, I probably love it.
Six things I could never do without
music, books, computer, food, stripy socks, freedom, and flirting. I think 6 is just so limiting.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Whatever I am trying to memorize at the time
On a typical Friday night I am
At a show, or having game night
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
That I went to cheer camp as a mascot, and learned how to take a bra off without removing a shirt, and that Midol will not kill men.
You should message me if
you have a brain....mmmmm brains
you enjoy a bit of witty banter
The two of us