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My self-summary
Geeky student here. Studying the hard sciences, but have a broad range of interests. I'm always looking to make new friends.


I've met an amazing lady via OKC and am at this moment putting 99.999% of my dating energy in her direction.

We are however explicitly poly-amorous/intimate, so if you're truly an exceptional person, and you think you'd be a good fit for non-traditional dating/friendship, certainly drop me a line.


My lady is bi, and I'm Hetero-flexible/queer, and we're both into private/public kink, so if you're into that kinda thing, just sayin... <---{shy face}
What I’m doing with my life
Studying electrical engineering and math by day, fighting crime by night. Well... maybe someday.
I’m really good at
Conceptual problem solving.

Seeing the big picture.

Knowing obscure tidbits.
The first things people usually notice about me
piercing brown eyes
lobes (frontal)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
10 page essay coming up...

No but seriously a huge topic, briefly:


William Gibson
Gabriel Garcia Marquez
Carlos Castaneda
Issac Asimov
Aldus Huxley
Neal Stephenson
various esoterica


Wes Anderson
Roman Polanski
Woody Allen
David Lynch
Kevin Smith
Jud Apatow
Alfred Hitchcock


Played Cello/Oboe/Voice

I know it when I hear it, mood dependent.


Chef for 10+ before going back to school

I specialize in French and Asian cuisine, though I have a soft spot in my heart for new American.
Six things I could never do without
A Smart phone
Muh two Kittehs
Good taste
Quality footwear
A Mechanical watch
Sincere conversation
I spend a lot of time thinking about

Cost vs Value

Home design/decor with reclaimed/free/re-purposed stuffs
On a typical Friday night I am

Seeing a movie

Playing pool

Cooking fancy dinnah for my boo boo.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I like Sarah McLachlan's album Surfacing.
You should message me if
You prefer to assume the best about people.

Are open minded.

Can handle a brazenly sardonic sense of humor.

Aren't afraid to swing a hammer.

Are OK with my utter lack of interest in professional sports.

Are comfortable with previous conversations being continued without preamble.

You aren't bored because there's nothing to do.

You "believe in the beauty of your dreams."

Are vaguely irritated when you must buy, rather than make.

You understand how sound can have color, and how color can convey movement.

Have known the raw excitement of eating something you've grown from seed.

Still feel the urge to build sand castles.

You feel texture, durability, and color are the most important parts of fashion.

Believe imagination, creativity, and having the balls/labia to try and possibly fail, are at least as important as knowledge, position, and measurable outcomes.
The two of us