48 Holyoke, United States
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My self-summary
In my previous foray with Okcupid I wrote about wrestling with paradox. Meaning I struggle with the idea of should I present as authentic, well rehearsed or contrived. Whether to take this online dating "thang" seriously or not? You get me? I guess I should mention my hope is that I will find someone who comes "somewhat" fully assembled. Not looking for perfection, quite the opposite, the idea of a potential suitor with "imperfections" would be an appealing quality at the moment. That being said, for those whom can appreciate the sentiment, I'd like to make an offering. An old greek poem (translated):

You are not here

and every flower
 I encounter

has lost its value:
it cannot be made an offering
to you...

I'm all in! Can't believe my fate rests upon an algorithm...yikes!
What I’m doing with my life
I’m really good at
Listening.....for reals!
The first things people usually notice about me
My soft-spokeness, and easily the bane of my existence.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Historical Nonfiction, Biographies, and anything about ethics.

Sidney Lumet's last film: Before the Devil Know's You're Dead
Spike Lee's: Do the Right Thing
Chris Weitz's: About A Boy
Stephen Frears: High Fidelity
Richard Curtis's: Love Actually

I love British television, favorite at the moment is Rev. on Hulu
The Middle, network
Modern Family, network
Parenthood, network
Six Feet Under, HBO series
The Wire, HBO series

Alternative Rock
Deep House
I enjoy many genres

I enjoy both low and high "brow" foods. I'm not above it!
The six things I could never do without
Debit Card
The Internets
My Amish buggy (car) now that I'm no longer an urbanite
Self expression
My precocious son
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How best to contribute to society.
Convention, serial monogamy and their effects upon online dating (kidding, I think...).
Living transparently.
What's for dinner tonight???
On a typical Friday night I am
Hanging with my raggamuffin doing something creative!
Metaphorically speaking, wishing that someone would just come along and claim me as their lost luggage.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Loved the 80's
That I don't have all the answers (but I'm always right)!
I still got a little bit of "freak" in me..ha!
You should message me if are not too high strung (you should know if you are) are emotionally stable (you should know if you aren't) are actually interested in having a somewhat healthy, not so complicated, plain-ol-fashion RELATIONSHIP! are comfortable communicating by other means than texting (meaning you're willing to talk on the phone from time to time).
Then let's talk soon!