I have more sides than a dodecahedron :)
I'm not great at selling myself, but I'll have a go. The things I hope to find in others are qualities that I hope I have myself, like... compassion, understanding, sensitivity, being comfortable in my own skin, not always taking myself or life too seriously, the ability to have fun, energy, drive, passion and kindness. I'm a realist but also a romantic at heart and I'm hoping for my happy ending one day, which probably won't be quite the way I will ever have imagined it, but then, where is the fun in that!.
I like to be out with people, but because I'm an only child I need alone time as well, but I am very happy in my own skin and with my life in general.
I tend to like the darker things in life and can find mainstream culture rather depressing at times, I like life to be a bit more mixed up and random. I like interesting people and conversations...but interesting doesn't always have to mean sensible :)
I value creativity and individuality, and although I can be quite serious, introspective and thoughtful at times, I still embrace my inner child and general silliness. I want to meet somebody similar; somebody I can have an in-depth conversation with...followed by a pillow fight.
I am a warm, open person and an active listener. Hugs make the world go round. I love my friends and I draw strength from my all my relationships. As much as I like going out and dancing I also like to curl up on the sofa with my partner close to me watching TV. These days I have come to appreciate the benefit of experience and yet feel I'm still finding my way round everything. I know myself very well and yet am learning more and more all the time. I Guess I'm paradoxical by nature. I'm shy and confident. Light hearted and serious. Precise and muddled.
I love old buildings, cemeteries and landscapes, Watching wildlife, in particular the Red Kites as they are such beautiful birds of prey and are such a joy to watch on a summers day, reading, going to museums, exploring random little areas of cities and people watching. Warm weather is x10 better than cold weather. I'm much happier in Summer when the days are longer, as there are many things to enjoy on those long hot summer evenings.
Like everyone I have good points and bad points and there are too many for me to write down here. So get in touch and find out for yourself!
I am independent, eccentric, and addictive :)
Working on a little bit of 3d design and graphics work in my spare time and poking about the internet and books on ancient and pre history when the mood takes me.
I used to be good at horse riding, but haven't done that in many years, but would like to again someday, hehe.
Late-night conversations involving the universe and/or anything in it.
.. being a bit too sarcastic,
Oh, and kissing, I'm really good at kissing... :P
Of course there are other things I'm good at, but you have to get to know me to find out about them.
I have had mention about my eyes as well, but you tell me!
I enjoy reading novels, but find them far too addictive and time-consuming to read them as regularly as I would prefer.
Sci fi, Fantasy, ancient history and other non fiction, tends to be my choice of reading when I do get the chance to. Next on my list of reading material is the Girl with the Dragon Tattoo trilogy.
I have an immense attraction to Asian historical fiction and other related films, Like, Once Upon A Time In China, Three Kingdoms, Seven Swords, Dragon Tiger Gate, The Storm Warriors, A Man Called Hero, The Storm Riders, Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon, The Duel, Curse Of The Golden Flower, Memoirs Of A Geisha, Fearless, Game of Death, Jade Warrior, Fist Of Fury, Police Story, Battle Royal, Shinobi, The Legend Of Gingko, The Protector, Armour Of God, Hero, Operation Condor and 14 Blades among the many that I enjoy in this genre .
Anime is also of great interest, Bleach remaining top of the list, followed by, Full Metal Alchemist, Death Note, Robotech, Cowboy Bebop, Final Fantasy - Advent Children, Digimon, Pokemon, Blood The Last Vampire, Akira, Ghost In The Shell, Ninja Scroll, Trigun and The Vision Of Escaflowne. Also quirky things like Studio Ghibli animations, Howl's Moving Castle, The Cat Returns, My Neighbour Totoro, Spirited Away and Kiki's Delivery Service being among my personal favourites.
Science Fiction is along the lines of, Star Trek, Alien Quadrilogy, Stargate, The One, The Fifth Element, Star Wars, Serenity, Transformers, District 9, Hitchhiker's Guide To The Galaxy, Jumper, Tron, Wanted, The Abyss, Predator, Chronicles of Riddick, War Of The Worlds, Dune, The Matix, The Terminator, Hancock, I am Legend, Iron Man, X-Men, Judge Dread, Men In Black, Ghostbusters, Robocop, I Robot, 12 Monkeys, Déjà vu, Back To The Future and Demolition Man.
Fantasy, Includes, Lord Of The Rings, Stardust, The Labyrinth, Pirates Of The Caribbean, The Underworld Trilogy, Flash Gordon, The Neverending Story, Van Helsing, Ultraviolet, The Dark Crystal, V For Vendetta, The Crow.
Horror; Such things as Hellrasier, Silent Hill, Resident Evil, From Dusk Till Dawn, Wishmaster, Alone In The Dark, The Devils Rejects, House Of A Thousand Corpses, Dog Soldiers, Ghost Rider, Blade, Children Of The Corn, House On Haunted Hill, The Lost Boys, The Crow, Shaun Of The Dead and The Wicker Man.
Thrillers, Include, Bulletproof Monk, Angels & Demons, Blue Streak, Crank, The Transporter, Broken Arrow, Eraser, Cellular, Davinci Code, Die Hard Quadrilogy, Escape From New York & LA, Face Off, Hitman, The Fast And The Furious, The Italian Job, FireFox, Lord OF War, Mission Impossible, Full Metal Jacket, Gladiator, 300, Troy, Unbreakable, National Treasure and Stealth.
Comedies: Airplane, Anchorman, Dodgeball, Hot Fuzz, Ace Ventura, American Pie, Harold and Kumar, The Invention Of Lying, Spaceballs, Police Academy, Dragnet, Chasing Amy, The Blues Brothers, Naked Gun, Airheads, George Of The Jungle,Black Knight, Analyse That, Around The World In 80 Days, Clerks, Austin Powers, Bridget Jones, 19 Thinks I Hate About You, Bruce & Evan Almighty, Borat, Click, Beverley Hills Cops, Bill & Ted, Baseketball, Carry On Films, Groundhog Day, Clockwise, Pink Panther, Caddyshack, Dogma, Down Periscope, A Fish Called Wanda, Dudley Do Right, Euro Trip, Fun With Dick & Jane, Father Of The Bride, Fools Rush In, Good Morning Vietnam, Get Smart, How To Loose A Guy In 10 Days, Three To Tango, Night At The Museum, Hitch, Howard The Duck, Jay & Silent Bob, My Super Ex Girlfriend, Jungle 2 Jungle, Kindergarden Cop, Rush Hour, Shanghai Knights, Liar Liar, Mrs Doubtfire, Me, Spy's Like Us, Myself & Irene, Mystery Men, Notting Hill, Robin Hood - Men In Tights, She's All That, Shallow Hal, Spy Hard, Team America, Three Amigos, Wayne's World, The Weather Man, Yes Man, Zoolander, 27 Dresses, 50 First Dates and Mickey Blue Eyes to name but a few.
Other films include, Pride and Prejudice, Hamlet, Rocky Horror Picture Show, The Devil Wears Prada, The Little Shop Of Horrors, Mary Poppins, I also like cartoony/animated things like Finding Nemo, Monsters Inc, Toy Story, Lion King and other such films.
TV: Dr Who, Friends, House MD, Firefly, NCIS, NCIS LA, South Park, CSI, Young Ones, Bottom, Star Trek, Little Britain, Monty Python, Dexter, Father Ted, Will & Grace, Blackadder, Black Books, Not Going Out, How I Met Your Mother, Top Gear, Q.I., Hitchhiker's Guide To The Galaxy, The Fast Show, Would I lie to You, Bones, JAG, Dead Zone, Dexter, Hyperdrive, Knight Rider, Airwolf, MacGyver, Stargate, Red Dwarf, Mork & Mindy, Monty Python, Police Squad, Mock The Week, Good BBC4 documentaries, Grand Designs and Time Team.
Oh, and property programmes in general, I like drooling over quirky and old houses...
Stand Up: Eddie Izzard, Bill Bailey, Ed Byrne, Dara OBriain, Michael Mcintyre, Sean Lock, Rhod Gilbert, Lee Evans, Russell Howard, Lee Mack, Jason Manford, Omid Djalili, Peter Kay and Ross Noble.
Music means a lot to me, few things compare to finding a song that stirs something deep inside or awakens some forgotten longing.My favourite genre would have to be industrial, there's so much variety in there, but I also have a naughty indulgence in good catchy pop. I listen to quite a wide range of music and will give most things a listen at least once. I'm sort of 'meh' about a lot of current music, but occasionally something jumps out and impresses me. Some of the bands I like include: The Offspring, Cold, Bowling for Soup, HIM, Spineshank, Korn, Manic Street Preachers, Placebo, Nine Inch Nails, Fear Factory, Type O Negative, Panic Lift, Icon of Coil, Marilyn Manson, Psyclon Nine, Covenant, Neuroticfish, VNV Nation, Code 64, Blutengel, Evanescence, Zeromancer, Pain, Combichrist, London After Midnight, Faderhead, Nine Inch Nails, Orgy, Sister of Mercy, Linkin Park, Lostprophets, 30 seconds to Mars, Foo Fighters, Paramore, Avril Lavigne, Sum41, Iron Maiden, The Offspring, Muse, Nickleback, No Doubt, Apocalyptica, Radiohead, Disturbed, Seether, Nirvana, Placebo, Guns & Roses, Bad Religion, Green Day, Blink-182, System Of A Down, A.F.I., The Faint, Rammstein, Benny Benassi, Prodigy, Eminem, Bloodhound Gang, Enigma, Killers, Sisters of Mercy, and The Smashing Pumpkins.
I also listen to the likes of, The Kinks, Duran Duran, Adam Ant, Depeche Mode, The Police, The Cure, David Bowie, Queen, Status Quo, Dire Straits, Fleetwood Mac, Dead Or Alive, Enigma, Genesis, Madness, Pink Floyd, Pink, REM, Supertramp, T’pau, Human League, Weird Al, Capercallie, Clannad, I also enjoy the odd classical music from time to time, like the classics from Beethoven, Tchaikovsky and Mozart to name a few.
Chinese, pizza and Carrot cake.
* Reasons to smile
* Hugs, cuddles and snuggles
* Watching Red Kites
* My Bicycle
* The spell-checker in firefox...
All the adventures I can have in the future!
Stuff. Nonsense. Everything. Nothing.
Life, the universe and everything and the number 42.
What albums I should be buying.
Where I should go next.
Where the world is running off to.
All those practical things that one needs to think about in the event of the zombie apocalypse or some such events.
And what to do with my house when I get around to buying one.
Snuggling, I do think sometimes about having that tender snuggling moment .. its something that is absent in my life and as a tactile person it quite torturous to see others displaying various skin contact moments when I'm unable to.
Snuggling is one of those great comforts where by everything relaxes and its like a moment in time has stopped and I'm at peace.... yeah OK now i sound completely mad, lol.
Clubbing in London or elsewhere, or..
Having a night in watching tv with nibbles, or..
Whatever else takes my fancy
I like DIY and rug munching....
You have a sense of humour!
If something I've written has made you smile.
You want to learn more about me and meet up for a drink and see where things go.