For the last ten years I have mostly been involved in ethically non-monogamous or polyamorous relationships. However, I am also open to other relationship dynamics including monogamous or monogamish ones.
What seems most important to me is to let new relationships find their own balance and fit in our lives without trying to force them into a particular box. Regardless of what it looks like, I am looking for somebody I find a real connection with.
I generally like most music but tend to lean towards rock both classic and alternative (whatever that is anymore) and jazz, (the more outside the better) and away from country. Although... I've recently been enjoying a little bit of alternative country now and then.
Art of all kinds
How depth of intimacy directly correlates to one's willingness to take risks in relationships.
Sex Positivity and how thankfully the definition of that is expanding more all the time.
You aren't annoyed that I am actually 55. I don't like even this type of slight deception however OkCupid changed their algorithm and regardless of the date range of people I say I'm looking for, they send me a skewed version of what they think I should be looking for. I've actually talk to OkCupid about this and they said they were sorry but they feel justified.