While I lived most of the last tens years as, and strongly identify with ethical non-monogamy and polyamory, I have also been, and am open to the possibility of monogamous or monogamish relationships.
What seems most important to me is to let new relationships find their own balance and fit in my life without trying to force them into a particular box. Regardless of what it looks like, I am looking for somebody I find a real connection with.
I generally like most music but tend to lean towards rock both classic and alternative (whatever that is anymore) and jazz, (the more outside the better) and away from country. Although... I've recently been enjoying a little bit of alternative country now and then.
Art of all kinds
How depth of intimacy directly correlates to one's willingness to take risks in relationships.
Sex Positivity and how thankfully the definition of that is expanding more all the time.