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My self-summary
Love finding my balance between excelling in life and leaving the world better than I found it. Enjoy new, life expanding experiences. Love meeting new and exciting people looking to meet new and exciting people. The smart and sexy people out there who don't take themselves too seriously with enough quirks to stick out.

I am positive, passionate, and paradoxical
What I’m doing with my life
Living, learning, and loving. I have my career goals and my life goals with some intersection but trying to push both forward to get that balance out of life. And of course traveling through new cultures when the opportunity arises.

In the winter throwing snowballs, ice skating, taking in a hockey or football game, enjoying the excuse for hot chocolate, or traveling somewhere sunnier or more exotic.

In the summer, randomly discovering Shakespeare in the Park in Harlem, being a part of a live Lip Synch Battle with over 5000 other New Yorkers, or happening upon the randomness of an artist's kibbutz on Governor's Island. Plus the fun, but more conventional movies, concerts, and Lincoln Center displays outdoors too. Still need to find some people for kayaking the Hudson.
I’m really good at
* cooking with spice
* listening, analyzing and dispensing advice that works great for other people
* surprising people with my strength
* finding Waldo
* getting asked for directions in a foreign country where I don't speak the language
The first things people usually notice about me
Probably my boobs, LOL! Actually, my hazel eyes that shift around to all sorts of different greenish shades in the light. Sometimes my hair when I grow it out and it displays some additional "life".
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Too many but for a sampling:

Books: The Quest for Cosmic Justice, The Tipping Point, Freakanomics, Angels & Demons, Fountainhead, The 4 Hour Work Week, Guide for the Perplexed, Foundation, The Chosen, ...

Movies: Godfather, Heathers, Layer Cake, The Royal Tennenbaums, Trading Places, Vertigo, Fight Club, Rushmore, The Usual Suspects, Animal House, American History X, The Big Lebowski, Annie Hall, Memento, Clerks, Sleepers, Sliding Doors, Reservoir Dogs, ...

Music: jazz, indie rock, punk rock, classic rock, rock rock, alternative, hip hop. pretty much anything that either has a solid message or beat to drive some emotion... or is totally danceable. though country need not enter my collection.

Food: SPICY and ethnic, but not gross exotic. PB&J is great but will only get me so far. And eye balls will never cross these lips.
Six things I could never do without
family, friends, meaning, intelligent conversation, music, & pizza
I spend a lot of time thinking about
friends, family, world peace, sports, sex, drugs, rock & roll, religion, philosophy, and how to fix my microwave.
On a typical Friday night I am
enjoying good times with good friends and/or family
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I kissed a girl and I liked it.

I'm double-jointed, but you have to take me out to find out where.
You should message me if
You're interested or even debating it. If you don't take that shot in life, you have no chance at scoring that goal.
The two of us