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My self-summary
Wow. How do you actually do this. Bragg, embelish......Im not sure exactly how this works. Oh and kind of uncomfortable......a little new to this. Married almost 25 uears and recently divorced. 21 year old son that lives with his mom in Nashville and my best friend. Although a megalomaniac for about 20 years...You know just trying to make a million dollars a year and not quite having the right perspective. By the way got pretty close to the million a year. Then opps the sad old story, there it went. So much more simple now, more relaxed, more centered, less selfish and working on the money again with a different perspective. Sang in gospel quartet for over 15 years. Love movies, slow dinners and long conversation. Try to avoid drama at all cost. Very affectionate, romantic and kind of an old soul. Water finatic although will have to re-aquire all the toys. Love to travel. Used to 2-3 months out of the year..........Is my time up yet??? Did I mention I was funny. I mean if you like funny.....I'm funny or did I mention that? How do you do this in a paragraph. I mean aren't most of you out there middle aged as well. I think I could write a book. Let me see what I have to next here.....Maybe by the time your finished it will be a book. Why didn't one of you tell me that?
What I’m doing with my life
Have a new business............Lost 5 but it's easier the second time. Take care of my 93 year old mother who is almost blind and is in early stages of dimentia. Yes whether you like it or not I really do that. Just didn't want you to think I was seeking some freeky favor there. I think too many people are best foot forward and it just lacks too much reality/honesty for me.....Am I overly cinical.She did take care of me and she is a saint. I have no complaints about the task but is getting a little sad and what's next for her.....you know?
Rebuilding emotionally, physically, financially........and frankly loving every minute of it. Wow if I had only know what I know now 25 years ago.
I’m really good at
Singing, writing, tennis, skiing and jet skiing, long conversations, humor, LISTENING, caring..............I sound like a great guy to me and I'm trying to be careful not to be such a computer dater guy. Can I get a little feedback.......I told you guys I was new at this!
The first things people usually notice about me
Very much an extravert........maybe a little of an intravert at heart. I am obsessed with making people happy and one of my greatest goals is to try to make everyone smile that I come in contact with. It used to be a game with me and my son. He didn't think I could do it every time.....and sometimes he was right but we always wound up laughing every time. So I guess the first thing people usually notice about me is a smile or sometimes just a coy look and a cute comment designed to make them smile.....You should try it. Really fun to brighten someones day. Most peoples are not usually going that good these days by the way.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
OK really mostly business on the books and you probably wouldn't recognize them anyway. Movies.........I am a movie finatic. So let's not get too deep into that. MUSIC....Have to park there for a minute. Classically trained singer. Done all the high brow stuff but I love gospel quartet music and contemporary Christian. Sang in a professional gospel quartet for over 15 years. Made a half dozen albums or whatever you want to call them now. But yes I still love Billy Joel, Al Jarreau, Kenny Loggins, Dave Loggins, Jazz, 70's and 80's stuff. OK enough of that......that's another book. Food.......what kind of question is that. I really like food. Don't you guys? A little oxymoronic. The waiter asked the man how he liked his eggs....The man replied.....Oh I like my eggs....The waiter asked but sir how do you like them cooked? Man replied....Oh I especially like them when they're cooked.
Six things I could never do without
My God
My son
Helping people
Making people smile
Love.....Done without it but don't like it.
There are dozens of things that I don't wan't to do without but..that's 6
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My future, my relationships and how to make them better, my business, how to be more balanced and not get to crazy busy, my 21 year old son, my family..............
On a typical Friday night I am
Well since recently divorced I don't currently have the most exciting schedule on the planet. Probably at the movies, out with one of my buddies shooting pool. Just being honest. I would prefer being at dinner over a glass of wine and having a nice, meaningful conversation with one of you nice people......I know your out there.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am not a big man of secrets. Good, bad or indifferent I will gladly tell you my story. Moved to LA when I was 20 and lost my mind for about 6 years. But it was really fun. Just ask.....I am pretty much an open book. Really think honesty is the big key so nothing to hide here if you really want to know.
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