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My self-summary
Who is this bearded man you ask? He hails from the great Pacific Northwest, and resides in San Francisco by way of Spain, Guatemala, Peru... He's adventurous and outgoing; passionate, confident, but not cocky; Playful and silly, but with a serious side; Creative, spontaneous and intentional. A storyteller and dreamer. A feminist who believes in chivalry. A speaker in the third person. A believer in romance, even if this is ok cupid.
What I’m doing with my life
Loving it. For my name 9-5, I get to work alongside brilliant activists from around the world trying to find solutions to issues ranging from reproductive health to human rights to open access to knowledge for all people. When I'm not twerking, I can be found lounging around Dolores Park, setting up a tent along the coast of Big Sur, scratching my travel itch (most recently in London & Madrid), dancing like nobody's watching, dressing up in ridiculous costumes, dressing down in my downward dog, finding inspiration through my camera, making moves on and off the soccer field, sipping on tea and reading a good book, and in general, continuing to grow and expand my horizons.
I’m really good at
Finding gems in used clothing stores. Sneaking into long lines. Cuddling. Bicycling in traffic. Starting impromptu dance parties. Taking pictures. Spontaneous adventures. Massages. Talking to strangers. Directions.
The first things people usually notice about me
I think my smile and my eyes. And sometimes my shoes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books - Jitterbug Perfume, A True Story of a Part-Time Indian, The Unbearable Lightness of Being, Sad True Love Story, On The Road, Zen and The Art of Motorcycle Maintenance, 100 Years of Solitude, The Motorcycle Diaries, The Life of Pi, White Tiger, A Heartbreaking Work of Staggering Genius, Where the Wild Things Roam, 10% Happier

Movies - True Romance, Life Aquatic, Maria Full of Grace, City of God, Dazed and Confused, Nightmare Before Christmas, Waking Life, The Holy Mountain, Exit Through The Gift Shop, Once, King of Kong

Shows - The Wire, Breaking Bad, Mad Men, Game of Thrones, Rome, Carnavale, Modern Family, Arrested Development, Curb Your Enthusiasm, The Daily Show, Fresh Prince of Bel-Air, Aqua Teen Hunger Force, The Simpsons

Food - Everything. Extra favorites include pho, panaang curry, lamb tibs, 4505 burgers, tacos al pastor, eggs benedict, chicken and waffles

Music - Classic Rock, Hip-Hop, Grunge, Jazz, Salsa, Indie Rock, Electronic
Six things I could never do without
Coffee. Traveling. Community. Family. Sunshine. Puppies (because who wants to live in a world without puppies?)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Everything really.
On a typical Friday night I am
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
When I was 6 years old I traded a two-foot tall transformer to my older neighbor for five my little ponies. I am not proud of this.
You should message me if
You are passionate, creative, and driven. You are serious about what you want out of life, but don't take yourself too seriously. You are up for adventures and exploring the incredible variety that the Bay Area has to offer. You are a practitioner of the oxford comma. Burlesque shows, live music, dance parties, tea houses, and flea markets excite you. You enjoy traveling and the outdoors as much as going out to a live show or cultural event in the city. Bonus points if you've read anything by Tom Robbins.
The two of us