32 London, United Kingdom
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My self-summary
So, what am I? Just a nerdy Londoner picking his way through life, trying to understand himself and his fellow humans along the way.

At a party, you won't find me dancing on the furniture. I won't be the mad drunk guy who only-just notices that there's a person attached to your breasts and tries to smooth-talk his way into your knickers. I'll be the quiet man you meet in the kitchen - perhaps you don't notice me at the first, but we end up talking until daybreak about everything - our deepest, innermost secrets, our struggles and triumphs, our favourite sci-fi characters, and everything in between.

I'm an atheist anti-theist nerdy introverted humanist artistic conservative liberal contradictory guy with a foot fetish. I am proud to repeatedly defy any attempt to label or categorise me.

I am bored of bulls**t in life, and bored of people who are heavy on bulls**t and low on empathy.
What I’m doing with my life
Life is busy right now. I recently traded in an easy-going systems analyst job at a friendly public sector university to go to work as senior IT technician for the London campus of a world leading Swiss hospitality management school. It's REALLY hard work but immensely rewarding and I admit I'm a sucker for free trips to the Alps. ;)

In my spare time I write music for film and the concert hall as well as being an avid listener of the same. I'm a walking encyclopedia of classical music. You just don't need Groves when I'm around.

I travel sporadically as time and money permit, with Japan being a favourite destination; great beer, great food, great people.
I’m really good at
Foot rubs. And unlike most men I dont require cajouling or manipulating or bribing into giving them. ;)

Also, I'm quite good in the kitchen.

I'm a good listener (but genuinely, not just the kind of "good listener" men pretend they are in order to get into your underpants) and I can fix just about any computer problem known to humankind.
The first things people usually notice about me
Oddly enough nobody has ever answered that question. Let's meet and you can be the first!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Sci-fi, comedy, drama. And sci-fi comedy dramas. Too much anime and Japanese drama. I am a New Whovian, Trekkie, and Star Wars padawan. I once went drinking with Murray Gold and Ben Foster.

Music tastes - 70s, 80s, and classical... Food, I'll try anything once. Italian and Japanese my current favourites. I also have a soft spot for the traditional roast.
The six things I could never do without
I'll have to give this one some thought.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Everything. And why so many others apparently fritter away all their time thinking about absolutely nothing.
On a typical Friday night I am
...sometimes unwinding in the pub, playing atrocious pool with some workmates.

Often, I'll be heading home to work on some new project; or just relaxing, listening to some good music, with a nice pint of something dark brown and hoppy.

I'm not a party animal. I value peace and quiet...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have a sonic screwdriver and I'm not afraid to use it. (It takes AA batteries.)
You should message me if
You can work with introversion and self-deprecating humour in order to reach an actual genuine person who will always do his best, and won't dick you around.

You're curious about and open to exploring my foot fetish with me.