32 London, United Kingdom
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My self-summary
"They may not show it - it doesn't fit their made-up little roles,
They don't even know it, but jealousy abounds within their souls.
They have no roses - subconsciously they envy us a lot,
They look down their noses, and see a couple of dorks with more love than they have got"

- "Geeks In Love" by Lemon Demon

In short; geeks unite.

So, what am I? Just a nerdy Londoner picking his way through life, trying to understand himself and his fellow humans along the way.

At a party, you won't find me dancing on the furniture. I won't be the mad drunk guy who notices that you've got big boobs and tries to smooth-talk his way into your knickers. I'll be the quiet man you meet in the kitchen - perhaps you don't notice me at the first, but we end up talking until daybreak about everything - our deepest, innermost secrets, our struggles and triumphs, our favourite sci-fi characters, and everything in between.

I'm an atheist anti-theist bisexual (but principally interested in women) nerdy introverted humanist artistic conservative liberal contradictory guy with a foot fetish. I defy labels and categories. I am your basic weirdo.

I *tend* to enjoy the company of women older than me. I am not searching for a cougar. I am bored of bulls**t in life, and bored of people who are heavy on bulls**t and low on empathy. It's a maturity thing.
What I’m doing with my life
Life is busy right now. I am two months into a new job as Senior IT Technician at the London campus of a prestigious Swiss hospitality management school.

I write music for film, television, and the concert hall - and I'm an avid listener, too. I'm a walking encyclopedia of classical music.

I love to travel whenever I can - Japan being a favourite destination; great beer, great food, great people. I have a very fragmentary understanding of Japanese when it's spoken slowly - I can fumble through touristy stuff, apologise for bumping somebody in the street, get food, buy train tickets, etc.
I’m really good at
Foot rubs. Obviously.

Also, I'm not a bad cook - and I'm very willing to put my money where my mouth is.

I'm a good listener (but genuinely, not just the kind of "good listener" men pretend they are in order to get into your underpants) and I can fix just about any computer problem known to humankind.
The first things people usually notice about me
Nobody's ever told me. Be the first...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Sci-fi, comedy, drama. And sci-fi comedy dramas. A helluva lot of anime. Whovian. Trekkie. Star Wars padawan. Music tastes - 70s, 80s, and classical... Food, I'll try anything once. Italian and Japanese my current favourites. I also have a soft spot for the traditional roast.
The six things I could never do without
Let's not go with the traditional idiotic responses to this question; air, food, water, etc... I'll have to give this one some thought.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Everything. And why so many others apparently spend a lot of time thinking about absolutely nothing.
On a typical Friday night I am
...sometimes to be found relaxing in the pub with some workmates. Often, I'll be heading home to work on some new project; or just relaxing, listening to some good music, with a nice pint of something dark brown and hoppy.

I'm not a party animal - my days of boozed-up revelry are well behind me.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have a sonic screwdriver and I'm not afraid to use it.
You should message me if
You're willing to work past a little bit of neuroses in order to get to an actual genuine person who will always do his best.

You're curious about and open to my foot fetish.