32 London, United Kingdom
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My self-summary
"They may not show it - it doesn't fit their made-up little roles,
They don't even know it, but jealousy abounds within their souls.
They have no roses - subconsciously they envy us a lot,
They look down their noses, and see a couple of dorks with more love than they have got"

- "Geeks In Love" by Lemon Demon

In short; geeks unite.

So, what am I? Just a nerdy Londoner picking his way through life, trying to understand himself and his fellow humans along the way.

At a party, you won't find me dancing on the furniture. I won't be the mad drunk guy who notices that you've got big boobs and tries to smooth-talk his way into your knickers. I'll be the quiet man you meet in the kitchen - perhaps you don't notice me at the first, but we end up talking until daybreak about everything - our deepest, innermost secrets, our struggles and triumphs, our favourite sci-fi characters, and everything in between.

I'm an atheist anti-theist bisexual (but principally interested in women) nerdy introverted humanist artistic conservative liberal contradictory guy with a foot fetish. I defy labels and categories. I am your basic weirdo. :D
What I’m doing with my life
Life is busy right now. I am changing jobs and going to work as Senior IT Technician at the London campus of a prestigious Swiss hospitality management school.

I write music for film, television, and the concert hall - and I'm an avid listener, too. I'm a walking encyclopedia of classical music.

I love to travel whenever I can - Japan being a favourite destination; great beer, great food, great people. I have a very fragmentary understanding of Japanese when it's spoken slowly - I can fumble through touristy stuff, apologise for bumping somebody in the street, get food, buy train tickets, etc.
I’m really good at
Foot rubs. Obviously.

Also, I'm not a bad cook - and I'm very willing to put my money where my mouth is.

I'm a good listener (but genuinely, not just the kind of "good listener" men pretend they are in order to get into your underpants) and I can fix just about any computer problem known to humankind.
The first things people usually notice about me
Hmm, I don't know... I'm not "people". You tell me!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Sci-fi, comedy, drama. A helluva lot of anime. Whovian. Trekkie. Star Wars padawan. Music tastes - 70s, 80s, and classical... Food, I'll try anything once. Italian and Japanese my current favourites. I also have a soft spot for the traditional roast.
The six things I could never do without
Let's not go with the traditional idiotic responses to this question; air, food, water, etc... I want to answer this properly and I will do so later after having given it appropriate thought!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Everything. That is not an exaggeration.
On a typical Friday night I am
...sometimes to be found relaxing in the pub with some workmates. Often, I'll be heading home to work on some new project; or just relaxing, listening to some good music, with a nice pint of something dark brown and hoppy.

I'm not a party animal, my days of boozed-up revelry are well behind me.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have a sonic screwdriver and I'm not afraid to use it.
You should message me if
You're willing to work past a little bit of neuroses in order to get to an actual genuine person who will always do his best.

You're curious about and open to my foot fetish.