43 San Jose, United States
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My self-summary
I am polyamorous/ non-monagomous. I have a fabulous boyfriend that I met on OKC (hedonismforme) and he is my first priority. I like talking to authentic people and do meet people if there is chemistry. We will need to exchange a few messages for me to figure out if the sparks may fly!

I'm especially looking for a woman who doesn't mind the bisexual thing. I'm craving a heart connection with a strong, funny, kind, independent female.

Yes, I am interested in connecting with men as well.

The other sections may seem light on information. I am on the shy side (no joke!) and will reveal more of myself as I get to know you. Then I'm an open book.
What I’m doing with my life
Deepening my spiritual practice. Exploring and learning on many different levels. Stepping outside of my comfort zone. My current experiment - what if I said "yes" instead of "no"? What might happen? Life happens!
I’m really good at
Listening, learning, being open, and interacting with fascinating people. Reading body language. Understanding nonverbal communication. Using my Empathic/ Intuitive skills for the greater good. When I'm in particularly playful mood, I'm very good at making people laugh.
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile. I'll be smiling when I meet you. I smile when I'm happy (of course) and when I'm nervous.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books - I'll read just about anything. Some favorites: White Oleander, Like Water for Chocolate, Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy, Jane Eyre, Illusions: Adventures of a Reluctant Messiah
TV/ Movies -Dr. Who is my newest obsession (thanks to Netflix!), The Matrix Trilogy, Ghost World, Sucker Punch, The Nines, Idiocracy
Music - I LOVE music, love hearing it live. All-time favorite - Depeche Mode. A very short list of favorites would include: AWOLNATION, Switchblade Symphony, Florence + the Machine, Dead Can Dance, NIN, Soulsavers. Spotify is the best!!
Food - Seafood is great. Especially sushi. I'm not eating any other animal protein at the moment.
The six things I could never do without
1. Sex, Intimacy and everything in between
2. Phone
3. Laptop, Internet
4. iPod, Spotify
5. Books of any kind/ Kindle
6. Car
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Ways I can learn, grow and better myself. I crave experiences and have accepted the challenge to live outside of my comfort zone.
The beauty of ropes and collars.
Having someone truly Dominate me.
How funny it is that I look conservative but I am very far from it!
On a typical Friday night I am
When I'm not with my boyfriend I am open to anything! Hanging out with friends where I can socialize and laugh. I can just as easily relax at home with a book, a movie, my music or with those who make my heart sing.
When the weather is nice you may also find me around a campfire having a great time with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have a very dirty mind and I have enjoyed where it has taken me.
You should message me if
...You have a profile picture.
...You don't mind a woman who is direct and blunt at times.
... You are someone who is being the best You that you can be, no matter how you choose to identify yourself, who welcomes a little exploration. Help me with this comfort zone thing!
... You are willing to be honest with me and yourself about your relationship situation.