I'm originally from CT, USA but not certain where I'll end up. I think I may switch locations every five years or so. Africa or South America. five in states, five out.
I'm not a fan of the idea of moderation, because it's basically an excuse for apathy. So if moderation is something you're into then we're definitely not relationship compatible. I don't mean to say I'm by any means perfect, I have many flaws, (laziness and procrastination are my worst) just like everyone but I constantly try to be better, and that seems quite rare to me, most people don't seem to struggle to get better as a person. They just want to get by, uninterested in evolving.
Most of the time I'm unkempt, and I'm usually rather confrontational when it comes to things that I'm passionate about. I'm looking for someone very much like myself, very practical, primary field of interest most likely something scientific. I have what I believe is a light sarcastic sense of humor. I'm also judgmental. Read through my questions if you want a good idea of whom I am.
I am a bit clingy, at least I think I will be, never been in a serious relationship, and am very set on only ever being in one.
In love I am seeking someone that I could never feel any bit of disdain for. Interestingly enough I was recently reading the book Blink and they pointed out that that worst of the four horsemen in relationships is contempt. I have more than the average number of rare standards that I have set for myself and whomever my lover turns out to be should I meet her. Picky would be an understatement.
Ideally I'm looking for someone within 7 years of age. Definitely no more than 12. But I think people might not be able to contact you if you're outside their age requirements so I've set it to 18-99 since I don't mind speaking with whomever.
After doing a bit of reading I'm fairly certain I have a mild case of Puritanical OCPD (obsessive compulsive personality disorder) or Principled Perfectionism. I'm pretty sure I will need to be with someone who also has this disorder. Though I'm not so sure that I see it as a disorder to be obsessed with doing the right thing. Well at the very least I have a number of the symptoms of it.
On Parks' Purple-Red Scale I am a E0 and am seeking someone who is too, I'd also consider a D0.
Working at Home Depot for the time being.
learning, planning, relaxing
setting my life up to become the man I want to be.
I'm very interested in blood and renewable energy, they're quite fascinating.
Doing what I say I will.
Being a bit of a hermit. I have no trouble being hidden away in my room with my computer and books for weeks on end. Considering how loud of a personality I have I think this might surprise some people who know me irl.
calm/ friendly composure, I try to be open to new people/ things
Author: Malcolm Gladwell
Movies: Stardust, Ip Man, Instinct, The Sum of All Fears, The Book of Life, Monster Hunt, Big Hero 6, Zootopia, Four Feathers, Spy Games
Shows: Person of Interest, Mentalist, Log Horizon, Naruto, One Punch Man, Trigun
Music: Taylor Swift, Plumb, Lindsey Stirling, Enya
Heart of the Lamp (bridge)
You and I
We can start a fire of love
When we're together,
We're brighter than a million stars
glasses, passport, rope, clothing, friends and family
I wonder if I may scare some people by this, I'm a rather friendly and often quite childish, and I very much dislike violence. But if peace is to be achieved for the world someday we can't shut people out because they are bad or evil, we are all created by the causes and conditions, people with lacking moral understanding were unlucky in their upbringing but are just as capable people. I live in many ways with black and white views but that isn't to say I don't see where had things happened differently in my life I would've been a bad person myself. The only differences between any two people is the environment they were born into and the family's dietary history.
Also I struggle with my sexual desire, though I believe in abstinence, I've had times in which I was weak and partially lost that battle. I would say my sexual desire is a bit higher than average which makes it difficult. Though it's been suggested that my sex drive is average and I merely have a distorted perspective. Possible I suppose, but seems a bit unlikely
Maybe I should add a "Things I find detestable" section here:
1. Casual sex/casual dating - If you were ever into it, please don't bother messaging me
2. Watching Sports
6. The way corporations own governments, the status quo in general
7. If you (will) vote(d) for Trump please do not message me. You could've gone in there and vote (d) big bird, satan, a potato, but not trump.
8. Meat eaters: I'm a vegan and would never consider a relationship with someone who wasn't as well.
I should also add a list of incompatible traits:
1. Religious/spiritual interests: I enjoy a bit of theoretical conversing on the matter from time to time, but think they're for the most part ridiculous concepts.
2. Performing arts: if it's a hobby that's fine, but if that's your passion in life we're not going to work out.
That's it for now.