So to make sure I can afford to spoil my dogs, I have a job I look forward to waking up for. Most of the day I spend working on engineering proposals and helping plan business development goals. It's fun and I get to think about complex issues and problems all day. That's a big part of what keeps me happy at work and feeling guilt-free that I don't obsess, or generally think, about work after I get home.
During school I wrote a novel and, after six years, have finally landed a contract to publish it. My book should be out in early 2011, so that's exciting. I always wanted to be an author, and now it's kinda happening. So that's also exciting. However, don't let that scare you off. You don't need to be a bookworm, librarian, or author groupie to get my attention. I'm interested in dating someone who is independent, low-maintenance, adventurous, well grounded, and who loves a structured environment but enjoys a spontaneous day trip or random excursion.
Take My MatchMe Test
1. Intelligence - 85.7%
2. Financial Situation - 76.9%
3. Spirituality - 76.9%
4. Friendliness - 62.5%
5. Independence - 57.1%
1. Arrogance - 62.5%
Dating Strengths Explained
Intelligence - Your sharp intellect is a valuable asset. Use your intelligence wisely; avoid condescension. Quiet, confident intelligence is very attractive.
Financial Situation - You've got your financial situation under control, which is a very desirable quality. Be careful to avoid women who are only interested in your money.
Spirituality - Your spiritual side brings you peace and balance, and keeps you grounded. This is attractive, as you can help reinforce this quality in other people.
Friendliness - Your friendliness makes you approachable and fun to be around. A wide circle of friends also works to your advantage on the dating scene.
Independence - Your strong sense of independence comes in handy while dating. You are not held back or tied down; you are free to pursue your interests.
Dating Weaknesses Explained
Arrogance - You are a bit full of yourself. You need to practice a little humility now and then, as arrogance can be a turn-off.
Dating Strengths and Weaknesses Quiz
I want to take issue with this last one. It's a TOTAL load of BULL! I'm not a BIT full of myself, I'm SUBSTANTIALLY full of myself.
I am kind, non-judgmental, and a thesaurus
I'm a conservationist. I kayak when the weather is nice enough and when it's not. Since moving to California, I don't kayak so much, though. The lakes here are less prevalent and harder to get to than in the Midwest. I was totally spoiled in Chicago by easy lake access. Instead of kayaking all the time, now I take my dogs hiking at Castle Rock, ride my bike, and keep my room immaculately clean.
When I kayak, I'm pretty good at paddling, but not so much at landing.
When playing fetch with my dogs at the park, I'm good at throwing the ball, not so good at throwing it where people aren't.
In terms of personality, I'm honest to a fault. I have a ridiculous vocabulary filled with words that I may only get to use once or twice in my life (but they come in handy at Scrabble.) I'm stable, and reliable.
B) -- Top five: Fight Club, Batman Begins, Coraline, Boondock Saints, and The House of Sand and Fog. Netflix is my friend.
C) -- I have some favorite bands, like Faithless, Live, Explosions in the Sky, and Nick Cave & the Bad Seeds; however, I spend most of my day listening to NPR and other radio stations from around he world (thank you Wunder Radio.) I have every episode of This American Life on MP3. Oh yeah, that's sexy.
D) -- I like turkey sandwiches. Sushi is great. Grilled cheese (optionally with tomato soup) works in a pinch. When I'm cooking extravagantly, I make deep-dish pizza from scratch, including the crust. A good hotdog and brat are always appreciated, but not so easy to find in the Bay Area. And creme brulee. Any kind of fruit pie (except lemon. Really? Lemon?) Apple cobblers are good. Oatmeal raisin cookies rock. I'd like to one day make an oatmeal raisin cookies that fits into a huge ramekin and then, right after it comes out of the oven, top it with some kind of ice cream, maybe cookie dough. I'll try about anything once.
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In my free time, I spend a lot of time with my dogs, but they don't know the area any better than I and aren't great guides. I would really like to meet someone who knows her way around and can show me some of the area's exciting offerings. OR, just as good, someone who is new and wants to explore the area together.
Over the next six months I have 70 or so independent bookstores to visit in the Bay Area. I need to visit the stores to decide if I want to ask the owners to sell my book and also volunteer to do book signings. How great is that?!? I'm really looking forward to it.