Dearmelina
30 Lakewood, United States
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My self-summary
I'm happily married. We've been together for ten years and our connection is something that I can never experience with anyone else. Our relationship has recently become non-monogamous, so I'm looking for some like-minded people to date, short-term. We're not hunting for threesomes -- we're both just looking for people to date individually. I'm mostly interested in girls, but I'm open to anyone cool. The most important thing to understand is that there is no potential for anything serious or long-term. That being said, I'm also not that into the idea of casual sex. Basically, I just want to meet some people I like and relate to, form a friendship with an added romantic component to it, and remain good friends when the romantic aspect of the relationship ends.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a sonographer. Someday I hope to be able to do something creative for a living, though. Or at least in addition to the ultrasound gig.

I'm in the process of learning Cinema4D.

We do have an 18 month old daughter. She's a good little dude.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I don't really read a lot of books these days. Last book I read was about a year and a half ago and it was Childhood's End by Arthur C. Clarke. I liked it.

Movies: Wet Hot American Summer, Burbs, Big, Best in Show, Baxter, Hot Fuzz, Shaun of the Dead, Raising Arizona, Big Lebowski, Erin Brockovich, Pan's Labyrinth, Office Space, American Movie, Back to the Future, Gung Ho, Coming to America, Spider Man 1 and 2 (the older ones), random B horror movies on Netflix

Shows: Game of Thrones, Broad City, Breaking Bad, Walking Dead, 30 Rock, Oz, Arrested Development, Seinfeld

Music:
Jam Bands (Grateful Dead, Phish, Keller Williams)
Punk (Stiff Little Fingers, Bad Religion, Ramones)
Hipster Crap (Man Man, Gogol Bordello, Regina Spektor)
90's Alternative (Pearl Jam, Nirvana, Jane's Addiction, Sublime)
Bluegrass/Acoustic/Jazz/Klezmer (David Grisman Quintet, Andy Statman, Tony Rice)

Food: I was a vegetarian for 15 years and recently became vegan. My favorite food is rice paper rolls. I also like lomein, soup, and good bread. Oh, and I love seaweed chips.
You should message me if
- You're not looking for a serious relationship and have no problems with non-monogamy
- You want to be friends
- You want to take pictures with me; my skill level is pretty much beginner, but I still have fun doing it. I have a low end DSLR and an Instax210
- You need a gym buddy
- You want to cook a delicious vegan meal for me
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