DebArt81
50 Mesa, United States
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My self-summary
I recently had a relationship end so I am back on this site groan..lol. but here goes. I am fun, outgoing, enjoy people. I want someone that enjoys the same things I do...the outdoors, nice restaurants, movies, good conversations, reading and well...adventure.

I am interested in men but I also want to explore my bi curious side. I seek someone who is considerate, enjoys great conversations, getting to know someone and in general has interest which match mine in all areas. I will be straight up here, I have gotten into some bdsm as of late (mostly the bondage part) and just love it and desire to explore it with someone I connect with. If we do connect and it feels right we can get into the details. I figure life is too short to not be straight up and say what i seek.

Please, no game players. If we connect online, I would want to get to meet fairly quick. Cyber is simply a means to an end and I dont like to do it without the potential to meet. I would like local as well, unless you travel to the Phoenix area often.

Please, be intelligent, have a job, no baggage. I have a good job and dont need to be taken care of. I am friendly and easy to talk with. My hours are flexible.

Sorry for how short this is. I am happy to tell you more if we connect.
What I’m doing with my life
I have a good career and am good at what I do. I am very creative and artistic, which my career requires. I feel free after the divorce to purse interest i have and just have fun and enjoy people. Besides continuing my career, I desire to connect with the right people who i enjoy, travel more and enjoy life. Pretty simple really.
I’m really good at
Making conversation and making people feel comfortable
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile. : )
The six things I could never do without
Friends, work, travel, laughter, good food, my kink. : )
I spend a lot of time thinking about
the right connection.. and yes. Kink
On a typical Friday night I am
Going out sometimes. Hanging with a friend.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I think I told you... will you tell me? ha
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