Debaser9
25 Ann Arbor, United States
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My self-summary
I really like how some people's self-summaries on here start off with "I'm just a really laid-back guy who likes to hang out" and I would totally start mine off that way except I'm not "laid-back" let alone "really laid-back" and I don't actually like to "hang out" :(

For Myers-Briggs fans, I'm an INFJ. And all of the things that come with that.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm doing a Psychology & Women's Studies PhD at U-M. I study hormones & gender & sexuality & other associated things and it's gr8 :D
I’m really good at
YES finally we get to the GOOD PART where I get to talk about ME

Okay so I'm really great at:
Figuring out your Myers-Briggs personality type
Tarot readings
Giving relationship advice
Talking about my feelings
Getting other people to talk about their feelings
Remembering lyrics
Making up better lyrics

I'm not good at:
Practical things
Sports
Being "chill"
The first things people usually notice about me
The intensity of my hair
The intensity of my personality
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Music: Björk, Kate Bush, Fiona Apple, Tori Amos, Joni Mitchell, St. Vincent, The Smiths/Morrissey, Belle & Sebastian, Tegan & Sara, The Magnetic Fields, Radiohead, Portishead, Modest Mouse, Janelle Monae, Joanna Newsom, Neko Case, Frank Ocean

I really don't know what to put for books because my favorites feel so specific to certain times in my life. Mattilda Bernstein Sycamore's The End of San Francisco and Why Are Faggots So Afraid Of Faggots? are my most recent favorites.

My taste in movies doesn't feel like a big part of my taste-identity. Same with TV shows.

Video Games (not that you asked, OK Cupid, but you really should have): Final Fantasy, Zelda, Persona/Shin Megami Tensei, Fire Emblem, Dark Cloud, Dragon Quest
The six things I could never do without
Bjork's existence on this Earth, my queer community, alone time, time with my friends, time with my family, space to overanalyze things
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Queer stuff, feminist stuff, social justice stuff, Myers-Briggs, my future, other people, sex, relationships, psychology, music, video games
On a typical Friday night I am
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Okay this is going to be hard for me to say… so just bear with me…
Okay, deep breaths… gonna take deep breaths…
I… *inhale*… … *exhale*… I am really great and you should send me a message. There. I did it. Wow, I feel so much better now.
You should message me if
I can't make this decision for you. Did you think this section was going to give you easy answers?

(I'm currently In A Relationship™ and not really using OKCupid much but I still like good messages from good people, so go for it if you want to!)
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