My ideal partner in crime would love art and culture, be worldly, intelligent, easy-going, mature, honest, sensitive, compassionate, friendly, adventurous, love traveling, cooking, drinking and dancing. I share a lot of those qualities as well. Can you tell I don't really believe opposites attract? I'm can be silly and goofy a lot of the time, but I have a serious, contemplative side as well.
I believe in the friends first school of dating, and I'm not in a rush to be in a relationship without getting to know someone first.
Dislikes: judgmental, intolerant, close-minded, immature, non-drinkers, cilantro, insincerity, homebodies (a night at home is nice every now and then, but I like going out as well)
Other things I've been busying myself with:
- Discovering hidden restaurants and bars across Asia
-Writing and photographing my way across the globe
-Winning every single time I play Cards Against Humanity
-Impressing your Chinese-speaking grandmother with my Mandarin skills
-Not knowing the right thing to say
-Being a good friend
Dave Brubeck, Cat Power, Astrud Gilberto, Beck, Elvis Costello, The Police, Velvet Underground, Hot Chip, The Cardigans, Bjork, David Bowie, The Kinks, Ladytron, The White Stripes, Mirah, Junior Boys, Stevie Wonder, Xiao Yaxuan
The Wanting Seed (Anthony Burgess)
Ficciones (Jorge Louis Borges)
Despair (Vladimir Nabokov)
City of Lost Children, Run Lola Run, Metropolis, Pi, Goodnight and Good Luck, Match Point, Django Unchained, The Triplets of Belleville, Igby Goes Down, Breakfast at Tiffany's, Harold and Maude
See it Now, The Critic, Sports Night, The Daily Show, Modern Family, Curb Your Enthusiasm, Seinfeld
-Drinks and good conversation
-An eclectic music library
You are mature, compassionate, worldly, and are looking for a stable, potentially long-term, relationship.
You can show me some cool spots around town.
You speak Chinese.
Also, a big plus if you can sing the theme song to the Animaniacs, or quote Calvin and Hobbes.