Movies: Bergman or Tarkovsky (Solaris, Andrei Rublyev...). Netflix has a ton of Bergman on instant right now so it's a deep well to draw from - I can't stop. All-time favorite just might be Noah Baumbach's "Kicking and Screaming." Not really, but I've seen it a whole lot of times.
Music: standard indie canon, heavy 90s bent. Yo La Tengo, Pavement, Archers of Loaf, Dinosaur Jr., Sonic Youth. At the end of the day, my favorite bands are still the Cure and My Bloody Valentine. The Kills I like, too. Oh, and Nadja: Canadian ambient doom metal, anyone? I used to go to the All Tomorrow's Parties festivals on those years when I can and hang with the aging 90s indie rockers. But they don't really do those anymore.
Or you like bourbon.
I’m looking for someone with all the usual good qualities; humor, kindness, intelligence, and hopefully a dash of rock and roll seasoning.