DerekNight85
31 San Antonio, United States
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My self-summary
I am looking for something serious right now. Ive been single and done the casual thing on and off for a few years now and im done with it. Be interested in the same. Also dont mind chatting and making friends, but im avoiding the whole casual thing...which unfortunately seems to be trendy right now.

I am a nerd. I like video games, books, and comic book
characters. I love movies; I watch them on netflix or the internet or go see them in the theater!

I have a very varied sense of humor. I'm very often silly and
goofy, but also can be very dark and sarcastic. I like a lot of
taboo humor; the things that most people would never normally say out loud. Sometimes I say things just to see the look on other peoples faces. Im also very open-minded and enjoy intellectual discussions.

I'm very clumsy. I can't really dance, and refuse to even try 90% of the time (lots of alcohol needs to be involved). I'm often shy, (and possibly a tad bit socially awkward), although I do think I've improved quite a bit when it comes to this.

I love meeting new people. I also love trying new things; I would try just about anything once. I can't understand people who refuse to broaden their experiences, even refusing to try a simple new food. To me, the whole goal of life is to experience, anything and everything.

I consider myself agnostic. I usually don't bring this up till later, (I'm usually a bit weary about offending or pushing religious people away), but this is a dating site right?! If you have a problem with it, then you should know right away, and not much later. I'm pretty open about religion and what not. I'm not necessarily opposed to dating someone who is religious; just as long as that person isn't looking down at me for my beliefs or constantly trying to preach to
me.

I can be very affectionate. I love to cuddle and kiss. A great date to me would be cuddling on a couch, watching a movie. (obviously not a FIRST date, but you know, later down the line :) )
What I’m doing with my life
I have a BA in psychology and a BS in computer science. I currently work at HEB but am in the process now of looking to find a position in computer software development (programming, software design, etc).
I’m really good at
Im a really good listener. Im the one people usually come when they need someone to talk to. Im open minded so people dont have to watch what they say or feel awkward telling me anything.

Sometimes im good at making people laugh or making people think, as well.

Ive also been told im a really good kisser ;)
The first things people usually notice about me
My height for sure, im 6ft 4.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books- I usually read sci fi, and fantasy, but I do read a lot of other random fiction as well. Some of my favorite authors are anne rice, Segei Lukyanenko, chuck palahniuk, Neil Gaiman, Tolkien, Vonnegut, etc...

Movies- Im a big movie person. I love watching pretty much any movie but here are some of my favorites. Fight Club, Memento, Scott Pilgrim, Star Wars, any of the Marvel movies, Lord of the Rings, Interview with the Vampire,Amelie, Shaun of the Dead, Batman movies Lion King, American History X, The Bird Cage, Alien, Aliens, Alien 3, Predator, Predator 2, Life Aquatic, The Thing, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, 300, The Fountain, V for Vendetta, Watchman, Iron Man, WALLE, and lots more.

Music- I listen to a lot of different stuff when it comes to music. I tend to stick a little more closely to different types of rock like metal, punk, alternative, indie, classic rock, etc but I do listen to other things as well.
The six things I could never do without
1. Friends 2. Computer 3. Movies 4. Car 5. Phone 6. Food
I spend a lot of time thinking about
EVERYTHING. Im one of those people who youll see sitting by themselves sometimes just thinking. Im an introvert at times, and I have a big philosophical side. Theres nothing like having some close to you to sit and talk about the world with.
On a typical Friday night I am
Out with friends. Maybe seeing a movie, maybe a bar? , Or maybe in with friends.

or maybe im doing nothing and we should hang out?
You should message me if
Message me if you are interested.
If I looked at your page but didnt message you, and you
find me interesting, please message me. Sometimes I wont message someone because either I think they are somehow out of my league or not my type, or because im just not sure we would connect, but if you feel that we would, then id love to hear from you.
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