35Hilversum, Netherlands
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My self-summary
I'm creative and caring. Can be a bit quiet, until we really get to know each other.
I enjoy art, culture and history, science fiction, fantasy, games in all shapes and forms. I like to go to museums, the cinema, go out to eat with good company or just enjoy a stroll through the woods or along the beach.

Looking for a funny and active woman in my life. Your life goals and motivations are more attractive than your cleavage. And Women that dare to take initiative are super sexy. :)

Please be (somewhat) sane. And be strong enough to carry your own luggage.

I'm looking for good company to explore the world with. (And, yes, that can start just outside the front door. It doesn't have to be at the other end of the globe.)
Start small and see where it leads us.
What I’m doing with my life
Working as a designer at an e-learning company. In my spare time I keep myself busy going out with a friend or diving into way too many creative pursuits. My apartment is half living space, half workshop.
I’m really good at
enthusiastically embarking on way more projects than I can reasonably manage. And then procrastinating about what to do first.
The first things people usually notice about me that they don't. I have the uncanny ability to walk up to someone and stand near them for 5 minutes or so before they notice I'm there. This can be especially interesting when I have my camera armed and ready.

And in case my career as a designer fails completely I could always sign up for a good assassins guild.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I listen to a variety of music, mostly melodic / theatrical with a rocky influence. Whenever I'm awake I usually have a Youtube playlist running. I listen what I like and sometimes discover new things that way.
A random selection of music I like: Mozart, Grieg, Muse, The Pretty Reckless, Halestorm, Sabaton, Volbeat, Mumford and Sons, Regina Spektor, Dresden Dolls, Susumu Hirasawa, a variety of anime and film music. And the list goes on.

I enjoy books/movies/series that are fantastical (fantasy, SF) although I'll neither shy away from a good period drama. I mostly have favorite writers/directors whose style I like.
Neil Gaiman - American Gods, The Graveyard Book, Stardust
Tim Burton - Charlie and the Chocolate Factory, Sweeney Todd
Hayao Miyazaki - Spirited Away, Howl's Moving Castle
Joss Whedon - Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Firefly, The Dollhouse.
Six things I could never do without
lots of paint
good food
...and oxygen
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What's with all these women calling themselves '...thecat' ?! Can someone please explain this to me?

Is it a means to express you are
a. cute and fluffy
b. like to be stroked
c. just have a catty personality
On a typical Friday night I am
Enjoying a movie, playing a game, hobbying/crafting or hanging out with friends. It varies depending on which opportunities present themselves.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
is that I would love to own a private spaceship. Not just a clunky shuttle, but one of those Star Trek designs. ...A small one.
You should message me if
- you're interested in meeting for a nice day out together.
- you're interested in art, design, fantasy, SF and/or games.
- you're open to let it grow into more than 'just friends'.
- If you dare to take initiative.
The two of us