Desirai
28 Gadsden, United States
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My self-summary
I am INFP-T.

This means I am introverted, intuitive, emotionally expressive, flexible and nonconforming, and easily stressed.

I am empathic, which means that I can easily feel and put myself into another person's emotional state.

I am a good person. I am often taken advantage of. I am skeptical, and if it seems too good to be true, it usually is.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm working part time and schooling full time, studying healthcare administration. Recently moved into my own apartment, so I got that going for me, yay.
I’m really good at
Whistling, drawing, photography, gardening.
The first things people usually notice about me
That I am singing and goofing off.... Haha!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Romance, drama, mystery, thriller, fantasy
TV: Not really. Umm.. Arrow, Jessica Jones, Law and Order, investigation discovery channel.
Music: My playlist currently includes Bobaflex, New Medicine, My Darkest Days, Amaranthe, Downstait, Royal Bliss, Volbeat, To/Die/For, 5FDP, In This Moment.

Food? I love food. The only food I do not eat is spicy food.
I am picky when it comes to textures, though. I do not like raw onions, celery, peppers, or anything with that type of crunch. Triggers my gag reflex. I don't like peanut butter except in certain circumstances. I like my steak medium rare.
I fucking love sushi and would eat sushi 5x a day 7 days a week if I could afford it.
Pasta is great. I would eat that 5x a day with my sushi. Oh and bread. OK, carbs. I would eat carbs.
What I don't like? Fuckin beans and cornbread. Bleugh.
The six things I could never do without
My pets. I will have pets forever. And lots of them. I don't mean a dog or a cat, I mean chickens, snakes, lizards, fish, frogs. If it is domesticated and I can have it as a pet, I want it. But there will be cats and dogs too.

Video games. Being realistic, that is one of my biggest hobbies. Without it I don't really know what to do with my free time.

Colored pencils and coloring books. I've been an adult that colors in coloring books long before adult coloring books every existed.

The internet. Life doesn't exist without technology anymore.

Nature. I would be miserable if there was no nature. If I had to live somewhere like NYC or Beijing I would probably die.

Antidepressants. I take them daily and I cannot function without them. It's none of your business why until I feel like you should know.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Things I wish I could stop thinking about.

I have genuine OCD, diagnosed by a psychotherapist, and am currently undergoing treatment and therapy. It will never go away, but it can be controlled.
On a typical Friday night I am
I work every Friday. As soon as I get home, I go to sleep. I work every Saturday. As soon as I get home, I go to sleep.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have a hand fetish. Omnomnom.
You should message me if
You want to chat.
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