27DeKalb, United States
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My self-summary
Welcome to the Fading Maelstrom. I will be your host and guide this evening. Please accompany me and mind your never know when the paths will...shift.

Adaptability is a high priority for me, and as such I prefer not to set many things about myself in stone. I would never restrict my dietary choices due to the loss of potential options, I refuse to limit myself to a gender role dichotomy, and I am completely open to having my personal beliefs challenged and modified.

I have recently started identifying with the general concept of demisexual/demiromantic attraction. Mostly this is relevant on here as a warning that I have to make very deep connections with people, regardless of their gender(which I find irrelevant, anyway), before I can feel romantically or sexually towards them. Therefore, I am looking for friends at this juncture that could eventually lead to something more, but I definitely want to avoid anyone feeling strung along.
What I’m doing with my life
Working part-time as a Library Clerk and going to musical theatre rehearsals takes up... pretty much all of my time?!? Every now and then I get a day free to see friends or play some videogames.
I’m really good at
I am highly proficient at finding things; it is one of my true joys in life.

I'm really good at cleaning things, but I lack the drive to do routine cleaning, so this only manifests itself in random places and in strange ways.

I've always been very good at taking things apart. I figure that I would be equally as skilled at assembling if I ever had the motivation to do so.
The first things people usually notice about me
At times, my ever-changing hairstyles have garnered attention. Other times, some of the more interesting pieces of my wardrobe have drawn comments. I'm statistically tall, built like a linebacker, and friendly; any of these are probably accurate.
Six things I could never do without
-Being physically active(soccer, volleyball, kayaking, physical labor)

-Interesting weather- particularly thunderstorms

-Variety...I have serious problems with boredom and apathy.

-Also adrenaline, for much the same reasons. I live for adventure.

-Wilderness...I was raised a farm boy and Boy Scout, and being away from trees and fires and natural water makes me edgy.

-Imagination. It keeps me going when times get tough.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Steampunk and libertarian socialism. Adventure.

I spend a large amount of my time thinking about activities that I would rather be doing than sitting around thinking. Unfortunately, my personal satisfaction in doing activities on my own is the same whether I physically do them or just imagine doing them. It is the added element of participating with other people that makes activities worthwhile.
On a typical Friday night I am
Adventuring is what I live for, and Fridays are as good as any other day of the week to fulfill that need.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
On my own terms, I listen to music nonstop, 24/7. It makes me increasingly uncomfortable the longer I have to be anywhere without music playing. I wish I was more introverted, so that I could justify wearing my headphones all the time.
You should message me if
you think that I'm interesting and that we could have life-altering adventures together. If you have an idea for a business and need someone to lend you their labor. If you need a volunteer for anything fun or exciting.

For people near me, I am always looking for physical activities to participate in, so let me know if you need to round out a volleyball or soccer team, or would like a workout buddy. I'm tired of having to settle for exercising with people I don't like.
The two of us