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My self-summary
I'm a hard-worker, anally organized, excellent listener, and a perfectionist.

I like all type of guys; nerds, dorks, musicians, hairy guys, gamers (board/video), wiccans, eclectic, sex enthusiasts, and the like seem to be pretty alright in my book.

Flute playing has taken me World Wide.
I've toured Internationally...
Canada, England, and Italy.
I've recorded for CD and National Public Radio.
I've played for places like the National Monument in Venice and the highlight at the Vatican for the Pope...
But it's never been my day job.

Work brought me to Tampa.
Life is good but there's something missing...
Hopefully one day I'll figure out exactly what that is.
I love PEANUT BUTTER, and the color BLUE...

I'm addicted to CRUISES. I'm always in the mood for a cruise. If you're looking for someone to share a cabin with I am seriously interested in talking it out. I have cruised with people I've only met for 30 minutes in person and we ended up having a great cruise.

Check me out on my other profile:

Want to know more? Keep reading...

I'm not actively searching for love, but I would be very happy to have it come into my life because I have a lot of love to give. I figure if it's right, "Love" will happen on its own.

Disclaimer: I am polyamorous. To explain, polyamory means "many loves", or ethical nonmonogamy. I think one can love more than one person and have fulfilling relationships with multiple partners.
For example, an Open Relationship; that has to be honest, up-front, and mutual. (This is what usually works best for me.) Or, poly could be a multiple partner relationship. So, I'd be open to dating a nice couple also.
I, like most Poly people, work to put jealously out of the equation as much as possible...and be more open and frank about things.
I also think most gay guys would also find open loving polyamory an improvement on the typical anonymous hookup scene. (Not that there's anything wrong with it between consenting adults.) It's way more fulfilling. It's all about options that best fit and make you happy.

To me a relationship is whatever works for whomever is involved. The most important aspect is open and honest communication. It is very difficult to be completely honest but life is less stressful when you don't have to deal with lies/omissions with your partner(s) that you're sharing your intimate side of life with.
What I’m doing with my life
For work I am an analytics consultant.

When I'm not doing the 'day job' I am at some rehearsal or performing some where. I'm the Principal Flautist and former president of Fanfare Concert Winds. Former principal and one of the founders of South Shore Symphony Orchestra.

I'm not really religious but I do frequently play church services during high holy days and holidays.
My belief of choice is Wicca, Wiccan, Pagan, Witchcraft, etc... whatever you want to call it. I'm not a heavy-duty practitioner but if you're into in-depth religious conversations you're more apt to have my attention talking about that instead of Christianity, though I have no qualms with anyone else's religious beliefs.

What I do with most of my free time is play board games and I am the organizer of the Tampa Bay board game group:
I’m really good at
If I don't know how to do something I can learn it very fast and be extremely proficient at it...
When it comes to learning I'm a human sponge. Yea, it's a gift and it just comes naturally.

I love numbers and math (use to be like a human calculator), music (Professional Musician flute and piano), gymnastics (Former Gymnast, Coach and former 96' Olympic hopeful for floor exercise.), I used to love to do and teach line dancing, and I'm addicted to Microsoft Excel I'm a guru at it and I'm always willing to help people with Excel problems/projects. I also love working with and talking about SQL.
The first things people usually notice about me
My shaved head.

If I have a flute in my hand and I'm playing they usually notice my love for music and they way I express myself musically.

I can be very shy and quiet in social settings so I'm usually in the background just taking it all in. Conversation is not my strong skill. It's not that I don't want to talk, I just never know what to say.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Magic's Pawn and any of the Valdemar books by Mercedes Lackey also the Young Wizard Series by Diane Duane.
Any fantasy with magic in it. (I enjoy audiobooks.)

Movies: Anything with Ryan Gosling or Jake Gyllenhaal in it.
Brad Pitt, Michael Vartan, Jennifer Garner, Tom Welling, Joseph Fiennes, Ryan Phillipe, Daniel Radcliffe, Edward Norton, Richard Gere, Robert Pattinson, Brokeback Mountain, The Notebook, Camp, Threesome, Twilight Saga, Dark Crystal, Labyrinth, Legend, Mad Love, Lord of the Rings, Shortbus, and most of all Porn! Love me some NetFlix.

TV Shows: Big Bang Theory, Smallville, ALIAS, FlashForward, Glee, The Pretender, Charmed, Yu-Gi-Oh!, Will & Grace, Real World, and So You Think You Can Dance. In review my shows seem a little dated, and they are. I don't really watch "TV" anymore but I do love binge watching things on NetFlix.

Music: Flute and Piano Music (Listening to and playing), Beethoven, Rachmaninoff, etc...
I love all kinds of music, I guess it comes from being a musician. Currently I mainly listen to latin pop music, Pablo Alborán, Camila, Reik, and Ricky Martin. I also enjoy alternative music, other favorite artists:
Levi Kreis, Gavin Mikhail, The Script, STAIND, Incubus, YellowCard, Three Days Grace, Breaking Benjamin, Enigma, Kelly Clarkson, Justin Guarini, Keith Urban, Darren Hayes, Jim Brickman, Janet Jackson, Jonny Lang, Tori Amos, and Alanis Morissette. (As you can tell a wide range).
Six things I could never do without
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Obtaining and accomplishing my goals.
I've completed a lot of my life-long goals. 10/13/2010 I became debt free at 32 years old by paying off my mortgage!
I have a decent job, car, home, life, etc...
I've traveled, I'm financially stable, I literally have a perfect credit score, and I have decent friends and wonderful parents. (Momma's boy, miss you Momma.)

A recent thought... I would like someone to want to take "me" out on an actual date... it doesn't seem to happen too often.
On a typical Friday night I am
Usually out playing Board Games, if you're interested in tagging along let me know.
Board games are my current addiction.
I literally want to play board games all the time, every free moment I can. (No lie!)
I currently would pick board games over sex. (That's saying a lot for me. Haha)
If you're not really into board games come on out and give it a try:
We're not talking Monopoly and Scrabble, but you have to check it out to understand.
If you're not into playing a lot of board games you're not going to see a lot of me. But I do exist. Haha
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm very honest, trust-worthy, romantically and sexually open-minded and I'm polyamorous.
I'm big on honesty, but that doesn't seem to be an easy thing to come by.

If you don't know what polyamory is you can google it or I can google it for you:
Feel free to browse around or talk to me about it. If you're open to the concept or you're at least non-judgmental then there's a better probability of being more than friends. Don't get me wrong I'm open to discussing/considering any view of relationships, depending on the vibe with the guy(s).

While I'm bearing all... Hmm... want to win me over quick, give me a foot massage, my feet are my hotspot and I also have a foot fetish. (But it's not a requirement.)
You should message me if
If you would like to spend time with me to get to know me it's important to know one important thing. I'm pretty busy with work, music, and board games. When I'm not busy I usually want to play board games or crash on the couch in front of a movie/series and relax from being busy. If you have no interest in joining me for board games you will rarely see me. Not that I'm not interested in enjoying your interests with you as well, but I've been told the best place to find a good match is doing what you enjoy, so if you don't want to enjoy board games with me as well then we may not be the best match in the end.

~Any of my profile interests you. Who knows what could develop...

~You want to play Board Games!

~You're interested in making new friends, and possibly more such as you're interested in having a poly relationship. (Otherwise known as polyamorous or polyamory.)

Note: If you are interested in possibly developing a relationship with me, don't let the poly aspect scare you off. As I put earlier, I'm interested in exploring many aspects of a relationship. It all depends on the person(s) and what works for "us". Take a chance, get to know me. You'll be happy you did. :-)
The two of us