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My self-summary
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Native New Yorker, ex-frisbee champ, feet on the ground, head in the clouds. I can be dry, creative, edgy, quirky, slightly sarcastic and silly throwing puns to and fro but to date no one has been injured. I often think "out-of-the-box" and will surprise you on a regular basis. I look good in earth tones, if that's a problem for you then we're not a good match. I'm an animal lover (pun intended?). I love nature, all beings large and small, visit sanctuaries when I can and have a pet in my life who's like family to me. Not much of a drinker. A hopeless romantic who's not hopeless and dreams of finding that special someone-for-me somewhere...

My friend Katy says:

“DharmadudeUWS is one of my most treasured friends and the only person I know I can depend on for the perfect combination of kindness, compassion, wisdom, and (best of all) humor. He never fails to get a laugh out of me, even in the toughest times. He’s a singular wit, a real gentleman, and a true gem.”

(she got an extra five bucks for the "true gem" line)

I have baggage just like the rest of the human race but I can guarantee it's only a carry-on and a garment bag (list of contents by request only).

You're a quick thinker with an indie streak. You're comfortable wearing, "a little black dress", "a t-shirt and jeans", or nothing at all (I prefer the last two). You're confident, you listen but have no problem letting me know what you think. You're whip smart with an open mind and enjoy talking about anything. You love the arts and may even be creative in some way. Money is important to you but the quality of your relationships is more important. You're looking for a man you CAN live without…but don't want to.

Whoever you are, you'll become a best friend. We don't need to be twins but if we discover we are long lost twins that'll be awkward and I won't date you.

Please have a photo unless you're invisible.

(I often forget to sign out of this site so it may seem like I'm on it 24-7…I'm not)
What I’m doing with my life
Reading Buddhist/Psychology/Tech related books
Helping artists fulfill their dreams
Always trying to make it better
I’m really good at
Twirling things on one finger, identifying dog breeds, stupid puns, playing piano, back rubs, conversing, listening, giving advice (if asked), writing parody, cleaning (it's true), making deals, research and eating
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm easy to talk to and my voice on the phone (I've been told it's sexy).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Sushi, Steamers, Stilton, Avocados, Salmon, French Bulldogs, Calicos, Cockatoos, Cinema Paradiso, The Iron Giant, Ken Burns' NY, Blood Brothers, Girl Rising, Stevie Wonder, Ivan Lins, Flaming Lips, JT, Freelance Whales, The Punch Brothers, Joni Mitchell, Fab Four...
Six things I could never do without
Friends/Fam, Animals, The Arts, Humor, Sushi & Oxygen
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why I think so much
On a typical Friday night I am
At dinner with friends, a party, Netflix or with you...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I never crawled. My parents said I sat in one place all the time then lifted myself up using a banister and started walking (therapists, have a ball!)
You should message me if
You want to know no more and are not really interested in online chatting or long email correspondences.

(Please only reply to my emails if you're interested. No need to thank me for a compliment or comment on my profile if you're not attracted to anything you see or read here).


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