57Saint Paul, United States
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My self-summary
Hi, This is all very strange to me, I havent dated anyone in 18 years, help! My husband passed away almost 5 years ago from liver cancer. We, my daughter Abby who is 13, and I have been through hell and back. I think it's time something good happens and we get back to having fun again, it's been too long for both of us. Who knows, maybe I'll find it here? One of my passions is being outside all the time in the summer, love, love the water, lakes, oceans, creeks, doesn't matter really what it is. I love to garden, do projects or just sit at the beach with a good book. I like doing most anything, easy to please. Looking for that someone that compliments me and also "gets me", hopefully to be my best friend and more.
What I’m doing with my life
Right now I am just trying to get back into the many things I used to do or enjoy. After you loose a spouse your world is turned upside down, especially if you took care of them the whole time they were dying. Many things get put on hold, it's like starting over. I think we're doing very well actually, so basically just finding out how to live again at this point and starting over with a new life for us and the good lord willing, maybe even better this time around.
I’m really good at
making people laugh, having a sense of humor and LOVE to laugh. I'm good at being a Mother and a friend. I'm also a great listener. Very good at being a partner to the right person, I'm very giving, romantic, very romantic if given the right situation and the right person!! Did I say romantic?? also very honest, and communicative. I am full of passion for many things, just a passionate person I guess. Also considered by friends to be nuts!! But also have a very serious side as well. I love to touch, kiss, and flirt with my significant other. Just to glance across the room and smile lets them know, yeah I see you, and yes I want you, and you are ever so special to me. I was truly blessed. That feeling of almost hyperventilating when I think of them, and that big grin when ever they come to mind, , I would love to have that some day. Something you always dream about.........
The first things people usually notice about me
How very positive I am, no matter what is going on in my life. My sense of humor, kindness, thoughtfulness. My appreciation for many things and my spirituality, which is responsible for all of the above.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Favorite books are medical suspense, by Tess Gerritsen, Robin Cook. Suspensful such as James Patterson, Michael Palmer. Music I enjoy is anything from 97.1, 105.1, oldies are always good. Not too much country, and I don't know who ever called Rap music but they were very misinformed!! Movies, I haven't been in quite a while but thinking back anything with Harrison Ford, Sandra Bullock. Food, hmmmm, I like most anything, not picky at all. I do like trying new foods as well.
Six things I could never do without
My daughter,

The sun,
COFFEE..:-) :-)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What's going to happen in the next chapter of my life. Where will the journey of this thing called "life" take me next...tune in..
On a typical Friday night I am
Doing something with my daughter, reading, talking to friends,working outside.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
So attracted to men with a great sense of humor!!! Hey, I'm not very willing to get any more private than that on one of these things!! But it's so true...sense of humor is a must!
You should message me if
Your interested, not married or other wise involved, or looking for a one night stand. Please no excessive drinking, I'm over the bar scene.
The two of us