Dilectus
28 Cleveland, United States
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My self-summary
I'm an active humanist and passive misanthrope.

I'm in a long term relationship but an open relationship so I am available to casually date people and make new friends, but I'm not looking for a committed romantic partner.

I don't speak from a script and I guess some people don't like that. I have done a little traveling in my time and I want to travel again. I'm a little bit of a nerd, and I have an enormous toy collection. I watch a lot of cartoons, play video games (albeit I don't have as much time for games as I once did). I love making new friends and meeting new people. I really don't like summarizing myself in an impersonal medium such as this because it just comes out as an unstructured list of trivial facts about me.

People often tell me that I remind them of Stephen Colbert, partially because of my looks and partially because of my personality.

I'm pretty smart. I can go on forever about social justice, anti-intellectualism, the insidiousness of religious indoctrination, the double standards of slut-shaming, and systemic racism, but just because I'm opinionated doesn't mean I'm uptight. I know how to have fun and I enjoy talking with people who come from a different background or even people who don't necessarily agree with me.

I'm sort of multi-talented as far as my work and career goes. I do sort of a hodgepodge of things and stay really busy. Ask me about it if you want to break the ice.

I'm not a musician but I love music and I really love sharing music with friends. Talk to me about music and win some easy points.
What I’m doing with my life
Lots of things.
The six things I could never do without
Beer

Board game nights.

My toy collection.

Netflix.

My cat, Ravage.

My awesome girlfriend.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What I would do if I was president.

Why people are so attracted to the myths of post-racism and American exceptionalism.

Why MRAs are the absolute worst people in the world.

I often think about what I would do if I had super-powers, and how I would use them to pummel the establishment into submission.

I think a lot about my short film idea, and whether or not I'll ever finish it.
You should message me if
You want to play board games.

If you're a free thinker who is intelligent and fun. I think the most important quality in any person is their capacity for empathy.

I'd love to meet someone who's independent and intelligent and successful and challenges whatever remains of my patriarchal conditioning.

Feminists/activists/nerds are all welcome. If we have similar taste in music then we will probably get along well, but it's definitely not a necessity.

DO NOT MESSAGE ME IF:

You occasionally begin sentences with the phrase, "I'm not a feminist, but..." (Feminism is something to be proud of.)

You occasionally begin sentences with the phrase, "I'm not a racist, but..." (Guaranteed the next thing you say is going to prove otherwise.)

You describe yourself or your ideal significant other as "god-fearing".

Don't be shy! Send me a message!
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