51Saint Paul, United States
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My self-summary
I prefer to do and experience rather than sit and watch. I am a community builder and tend to become deeply involved in the organizations that are important in my life. I like to travel. To me the journey, the means of transportation and the qualities of my traveling companions are more important than the destination.

I like women who are a bit adventurous, kinky, intellectually curious and like to create things. Sun dresses make me smile; pearls are hot. A fondness for spicy food and red wine is appreciated. I am seeking a person to share occasional adventures over coffee, in the air, on the road or wherever.

I am in a committed, open, relationship with my wife, jennjustjenn. We have a great marriage; but recognize that there are things that we enjoy doing with others. We prize consent and open communication.
What I’m doing with my life
I spend my free time doing projects around the house. I love tinkering with my 21-ft sail boat. I work as a project manager for an industrial automation firm. I am a contributor, organizer and leader in several communities of interest.
I’m really good at
I enjoy fixing, designing and building things. I enjoy cooking and am comfortable working without recipes; I make a mean pot-roast.
The first things people usually notice about me
That I have a tremendous amount of energy. Not nervous energy, just the energy to get things done.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Radio: MPR and 96.3
Music: Peter Gabriel, Nina Simone, Prince, Hawai'ian music, The Eagles, Seattle grunge even some country and old school rap.
Books: Classic Science Fiction and quirky non-fiction like "Freakonomics"or "The disappearing spoon". Tristan Taormino's "Opening Up". Currently Reading David Weber's Honor Harrington series.
Favorite Foods: Sushi, Steak, Italian, Korean
Movies: ?"Intellectual Thrillers" and anything featuring ships, submarines or divers.
Six things I could never do without
In no particular order:
1. Some kind of two-wheeled or winged transport in addition to my car.
2. Good beer, wine or coffee
3. RPN calculators.
4. Music that makes me think and feel.
5. The freedom to travel.
6. The passion to do right by people.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
1. What is next in my life, career, hobbies and creative ways to spend time with friends.
2. Wow! She looks kind of familiar, but where do I know her from. (I bet its my mind playing tricks on me)
On a typical Friday night I am
Cooking dinner and relaxing with friends, taking a leisurely ride on a my motorcycle or working on some kind of project. Saturday nights have an energy all their own.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I would like to learn to play bass guitar (again).
You should message me if
You are willing to consider being in an open relationship.
You would enjoy a hang-out buddy as well as a romantic partner.
You might like a ride in an airplane.
You like date nights at the movies.
The two of us