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My self-summary
Here's all you really want to know:
- My path is unorthodox, in intentional and awesome ways.
- My words are intelligent and transparent.
- My mind craves a playful, passionate life...and I'll bring toe curls to someone who joins me in it!
- My socks usually match.
- I'm experienced with ethical non-monogamy. Its not a feature of all of my relationships, but its where I am now.

For the sake of completeness, here's all the other jabber...

Costuming, acroyoga, hosting parties, circus arts, seeking new experiences, playing games of all sorts, thrift store shopping, rock climbing, fire spinning, and having candid conversations with close friends. I hang with Burning Man folks occasionally. I perform with an improv comedy troupe, and also enjoy watching improv shows.

In Dec 2013 I retired from my career as a video game developer and now spend my time volunteering my tech skills and moving my body in fun ways instead of sitting in front of a computer. That includes gymnastics, aerials, trapeze, slackline, trampoline, and my first circus love, acroyoga! You'll also find me out dancing when the mood strikes, volunteering at events, and doing outdoorsy things when the weather is fair. I balance my active lifestyle and generally healthy eating habits with umbrella-adorned cocktails.

I say what I'll do, and I do what I say I'll do.
There's a sarcophagus in my living room, next to my trapeze and aerial silks.
I favor acceleration over velocity.
People are complex. An open mind goes a long way with me.
Passion for travel? Sure, I'm in!

What I seek:
Confidence, emotional intelligence, and vulnerability. You stand stands head and shoulders above the crowd.
What I’m doing with my life
Having exited tech as a profession, I have the luxury of applying those skills on a volunteer basis and pursuing a variety of other interests.
I’m really good at
Using my words
Social engineering
Ingesting stupendous amounts of sugar
Creating and wearing loud costumes
Throwing Halloween parties
Coaxing people into trying new things
Keeping a cool head in stressful situations
Giving and receiving massages.
Designing bathrooms. Well, I designed MY bathroom. I think its quirky and spacious and space-efficient and utterly awesome.
The first things people usually notice about me

I appear younger than my age.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Does anyone really care? Fine...
Music: Tim Minchin is hot on my playlists!
Movies/TV: I like Aaron Sorkin. I usually watch TV series en-masse after the whole season is done...usually combined with working out.
Food/Music: I'm fairly omnivorous on both.
Six things I could never do without
Authentic people who can think for themselves
Doubley-nested parenthesis
Model M keyboards
Email and my digital calendar
Moving my body
Lists containing six things. Especially if they're bulleted.
On a typical Friday night I am
There's too much to do for 'typical'...but its usually with dates or friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
My hair is fun to touch.
You should message me if
...something you've read here motivates you to do so. Or if you really like corn chips. A shared passion for Fritos can go a long way.

I've got my life together, and I'm looking for that in you. Have passions, share them with me. Bonus points for fit & athletic!

Regarding "Doesn't want kids": I'm a fine uncle, but have no desire to raise a child. If you're mom to a mature teenager a few years from leaving the house, no sweat.
The two of us